why cant it be I got 2 girls pregnant and still in high school. I am still in high school to, i am a junior. Cassie is a junior too and jess is a senior. I love both of them and i dont want to hurt noone. I did love jess with all my heart a year ago and i still do but when i met cassie, everything changed, i totally found in love. When i am with cassie, i feel whole and i dont feel like that when i am with jess but i do love her. I met cassie almost a year and i felled in love. I dont know what is wrong with me, i love both of them and i didnt want to do this to both of them. I tried to tell them but i couldnt, i dont want to hurt them. I think i love cassie more because i would do anything for her. i defended her when one of my friends called her a sl*t last week, i kicked my ex friends ***. I bought cassie a bracelet with i love you baby 4ever. i also got jess a lockit with a pic of me and her in it and planning on buying cassie one too. i dont know what to do, i love both of them.
2007-05-01 15:03:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
why cant life be a soap opera. i can get out of this mess by when the babys are born, switching the dna reports or something like that.
i will help both out but i dont want to loose both of them but if it comes down to choose one because i am afraid they might find out because of my friend, he may tell jess. i dont know but i will most likey pick cassie over jess because i can a feeling something bigger between us. i love both of them. i know that some people says, that this stuff happens in soaps but i doesnt always, he can happen in real life and i am in one. i wish i could change this and dont hurt both of them, they are beatiful girls, cassie is a little hotter with a great personialy. jess is to but i love cassie more i can feel it. i dont know what to dpo
2007-05-01 15:04:48 · update #1
Life can be a soap opera... that's the problem... and those who have soap opera-ish lives don't tend to be very content from what I've seen. You seem to be in turmoil, which just goes to show why life perhaps shouldn't be a soap opera, they just aren't very fulfilling in the long run. You're just in high school, but I know adults who live their lives this way and they're so very unhappy. You say you don't know what to do, but it seems obvious you know you need to make some sort of change. While it's sweet that you have done special things for these girls, it's unfair to continue a relationship with both of them. You said: "I tried to tell them but I couldn't, I don't want to hurt them," so it seems obvious you know this is going to hurt someone. Don't you think it's kinder to be honest now, than some point in the future, after they've both had time to fall deeper in love with you? It's going to hurt, yes, you can't avoid that, so if you do love both girls, make a decision now and be honest with them so that they don't get hurt even more down the road. Since they are both expecting a baby, it seems you have a lifetime of being involved with each of them ahead of you if you plan to be involved in your children's lives.
Tough choices.. no wonder you don't know what to do. From my experience though, girls don't particularly like sharing a man they love with someone else. Try to look at it from their perspective, and try to look down the road to the future and that may help you make a decision.
2007-05-01 15:19:38 · answer #1 · answered by chocolatefurball 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, your life is a soap opera. And they are going to find out about each other, it's just a matter of time. I suggest you actually TELL them as it will be easier to swallow from you than from some other person.
Good luck to you, and don't try any silly soap opera stuff.
2007-05-01 22:09:15 · answer #2 · answered by alexandria1_1999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK let life be a saop opera
if so you will not be alive one of this girl will shot you
you must have been sleeping in class when the teacher was talking about sex 101
2007-05-01 22:11:21 · answer #3 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very interestung story indeed..sooner or later the main character of the story would be introuble as he will be dumped by both the girls when they find out abt him!! good luck to main character...and jess and cassie...are they really preggers? i am confused..or the main character wants them to be??
2007-05-01 22:14:32 · answer #4 · answered by Aquagal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pathetic.
2007-05-01 22:16:47 · answer #5 · answered by surffsav 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shoulda thought about all that before you wanted to play the games.. nothin matters now bout what u did .. who u love more blah blah blah.. now you have two babies you have to take responsibility for, you wanted to pretend to be a man, now is ur time to step up, cut out the shyte .. keep it in yo pants and be a man.
2007-05-01 22:13:47 · answer #6 · answered by rootzgirl34 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you F###ED up royally you have to tell them. are you sure their both preggers and its not a way to trap you to be with either of them teenage girls will do that. if their both preggers i you HAVE to be honest to both of them... talk to a family member a school counsellor some one who can really y help you!!!!
2007-05-01 22:25:41 · answer #7 · answered by anne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋