if you are a girl--what are you looking in a guy?
if you are a guy--what are you looking in a girl?
if you are gay--what areyou looking in a guy?
if you are lesbian--what are you looking in a girl?
if you are bi---what do you look in both?
2007-05-01 15:01:55 · 17 answers · asked by .I.L.M.B.-&-.M.G. 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well, I guess technically I'm "bi". So I'll start with the body things.
In a guy: nice defined jaw line(I'm really sorry, but I've had some experiences and fat guys scare me now...but that's actually not what I meant by defined.), really unique eye color(maybe light on the inside and real dark outer edges), for some reason I like long eyelashes and it's actually a common thing with people I know., I tend to like really any hair as long as it's not greasy or buzzed-and I love the shaggy look., I like him to be a tiny bit squishy so I have something to hug-but again not really fat-I've always gone for guys thinner than ME(lol) but that's not saying much(ehehe), someone who makes me happy on the worst of bad days, and I also enjoy large feet-if you catch my drift-. :)
In a girl: I don't like 'em fat, but not so thin that she has no meat at all on her(need SOMETHING to hold onto. hehe), someone who is as crazy as ME, someone who totally understands me and KNOWS me, who respects me as much as I do them, who laughs a lot and just makes me feel great on my worst days, someone who has a great smile and nice eyes(I love the whole misty eyed thing too), someone who's hair(again) isn't greasy, but other than that I don't care what style etc., and I like if she grooms nicely but I HATE thost girls who like, DRAW on their eyebrows and even more so when they draw really badly so it looks like they're perminitly angry etc.(yuck!), and I love a nice firm butt-butts and boobs are the most important when it comes to looks! lol As far as breasts, I really like them as big or small as they are as long as they're not ove E or droopy(again, yuck!) hahaha But I mean, you know how that is. :)
In both: dimples(I think they're just so cute!), I love a big smile and green eyes attract my attention almost instantly, I favor freckles only in small amounts since I have some freckles here and there, IF we ended up having kids(for the guys), we'd get a sheit load of freckles. hahaha
PERSONALITY: It has to be GREAT. I can't date someone who has a bad or boring personality. I need someone who makes me laugh, who's not afraid to be really goofy but also serious at times, who likes to cuddle, who will do sweet things for me when I need it, who UNDERSTANDS ME, who's personality is SO intense that it no longer matters if they don't look "hot" anymore, someone who tells me I'm beautiful instead of hot or whatever, someone who will hold me and kiss my head(so romantic) instead of just going strait for the lips, someone who can just BE THEMSELVES. I'm sure I'm missing a LOT but I'm afraid you'll be angry if I write anymore. hehehe oh, but MOST OF ALL, THEY MUST HAVE AN OVERALL SENCE OF HAPPINESS or they will bring me down as well...
2007-05-01 15:40:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are assuming, that life has a greater purpose, in the bigger scheme of things, that there is a plan and we are some part of it. The simple fact is that there doesn't have to be a reason to life, We may be nothing more than a random mixing of elements that got lucky. One person is but a spec, on a tiny dot of a planet, floating around one star, of a uncountable billions, in one arm of the one of many galaxies in a vast universe of time and space. What ever beliefs you have do not come close to matching the size and depths of the universe as a whole, All you can do is make the best of what you've got, and the world you live in. If there is anything after death, you will have to deal with it when you get there
2016-05-18 06:20:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was definitely all encompassing, and very forward thinking of you to ask that way. I am Bi. I am married now but when I was looking I wanted to make sure that I found someone that understood my way of life and didn't try to hold me back from it. There are many that do not agree with my lifestyle as I live it now (We are not monogamous), But it was important to me to be able to not feel stifled. In a woman, I look for understanding and compassion, and more than anything a beautiful soul. No matter what someone looks like on the outside they are ugly without being beautiful on the inside.
2007-05-01 15:10:48 · answer #3 · answered by *jen* 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm bi and I usually look for the same thing in both sexes.
Mentally/Emotionally :
Kindness
Romance
Compassion
Open Emotionally
Good Sense Of Humor
Physically :
A cute face (that's all, really)
2007-05-01 15:32:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im a gayguy...i've been single - forever not coz im ugly just coz i fancy very few lads...i go for the skater surfer type like myself but limited...i used to just got for looks but nowadays personality is pretty much the clincher!
2007-05-01 15:05:59 · answer #5 · answered by cinderfella 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are a lot of things that i look for in a guy...could be physically, personality wise and etc....but of course the first thing that i see is the looks...i easily get attracted to fair skinned tall youthful looking guys with fantastic abs...but these things are not really requirements...i got for guys who are witty and capable of holding a conversation...can be intellectual at times...funny at times...serious at times...and very sensitive!...:)
2007-05-01 15:11:51 · answer #6 · answered by snakey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Similar interests, a sense of humor, a willingness to be active, and a caring manner that listens just about as much as it speaks.
2007-05-01 15:10:37 · answer #7 · answered by NHBaritone 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I look for a man with similar beliefs, a warm smile, someone who doesn't have to get drunk to have a good time.. someone who likes to do things, someone who will hold me and tell me everything is ok when I need it..
Someone who isn't abusive or mean
Someone who loves me for who I am and doesn't want to change me..
2007-05-01 15:06:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sucess in life, child with in, full hearted caring guy, sexually active in the bed room, great looking smile and body.
im a straight girl, by the way its not hard finding a perfect partner its how except them for who they are
2007-05-01 15:06:37 · answer #9 · answered by i ♥ Food 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm straight & a girl. But what I look for in a guy is personality. Yes, looks attract me first, but if you have a killer personality, I'll love you. Make me laugh, make me smile, don't make me mad or upset, and you got it. =)
2007-05-01 15:08:18 · answer #10 · answered by Em 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋