My boyfriend and i have been dating for sometime now,and he wants to take the relationship to another level.But my whole thing is that i have low risk hpv,occaisionally i would get warts but they would go away after time.If i tell him i have it he would never talk to me anymore and think that im (dirty).hes a very cool guy or whatever but i just dont know what to do!should i tell him or no?What should i do as far as my future relationships .
2007-05-01 14:53:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
You always have to be honest. It is not fair to him if you don't tell him the truth. If he really wants to be with you, then he will understand and do some research and use extra precaution if and when you decide to have sex, ( from my understanding you both have not had intercourse yet) As for future relationships, it's not as if you have to tell everything to the first person you date, only the people that you are going to be intimate with. It sucks, but it's morally correct. What if the tables were turned and someone you were dating for awhile turns out to have warts. How are you going to feel? Maybe a little or a whole lot betrayed? Good luck!
2007-05-01 15:04:37 · answer #1 · answered by Malena 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off... i dont know how you got it or why.. but my sisteter has it to... its hard in a relationship to tell your partern but you should... Some guys with turn n run lol but thoes that understan it most likely wont... I would tell him and let him know the facts.. a guy canmost likely will not get hpv... they can though...just let him know the facts and esplaine to him that safe sex practicese and being carefull will help prevent him from getting it.. and having hpv does not at all make you dirty... heres a prety decent site with info www.HpvInfo.com .. and if he has questions or you do about sex and how not to trasfer hpv talk to you doctor... good luck.. and if he does think your dirty or what ever hes probably not the right guy for you...
2007-05-01 22:38:45 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Rora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definately tell him. Having HPV does not make you dirty. If he leaves you because of that, he wasn't worth dating in the first place. Be honest in your future relationships, too, the people who stick with you will be worth having in your life. Good luck and take care!
2007-05-01 22:02:29 · answer #3 · answered by mpsi156 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him. He has a right to know for his own protection. Put yourself in that postition...wouldn't you want to know so you could make that decision? If he wants to judge you like that, then you're better off without him anyway. That's a pretty big secret to keep from a serious boyfriend.
2007-05-01 22:43:56 · answer #4 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him. If he Wants you and loves you and cares for you for who you are than tell him that you have it. In future relationships be front up with them because Sometimes you just dont want to end up getting hurt. Your boyfriend Should Just understand it.
2007-05-01 22:05:34 · answer #5 · answered by sk8tergurl1405 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him, since there is a high chance that he can get it. If he wants to break up over it, then that is his problem. You can do better than that.
2007-05-01 22:20:15 · answer #6 · answered by iloveeeyore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no question here, you have to tell him. If he doesn't want you after you tell him, then it wasn't meant to be. You have to tell anyone and everyone you are going to sleep with.
Best of luck to you.
2007-05-02 09:12:39 · answer #7 · answered by Tammy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. If he leaves you or finds it dirty you leave him coz he isn't worth dating.
2007-05-01 22:08:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋