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I have been with my girlfriend for almost three months. It's been amazing, her parents approve, and so do mine. We see each other just about everyday.

There's one problem. Her best friend HATES me. I believe shes mad because since me and my girlfriend spent every day together, she has no time to hang out with her. She wants to have my girlfriend in her life every second. Since day one, she has said horrible stuff about me. It tears my girlfriend apart when her best friend talks bad about me.

Also, last week she told her you pick him or me. Then she apologized, but I think shes a fake friend if she does that, right? Why would you make your good friend choose over somebody, thats not right.

Anyway, I dislike her best friend highly now that she talks bad about me behind my back, and she has no reason to hate me.

She cussed me out, and so I got upset and cussed her out a day later after i reasoned with her.

What should I do?

I'm really mad, and this is a horrible situation.

2007-05-01 12:48:46 · 9 answers · asked by romanroman2001 1 in Pets Fish

The girl won't sit down, she hates me. She wants nothing to do with me. It seems to me, like she wants us to break up. She is doing everything in her power. My girlfriend cries at night because it hurts when her friend says cruel things about me.

Her friend is a chronic liar and manipulator. Everything she says are lies. I think shes narcissistic, anyway. What should I do?

Sitting down is not an option and hanging out is not an option, she refuses.

I also give her time, she can hang out with her if she wants.

HELP

2007-05-01 13:07:07 · update #1

9 answers

Well being that this is a pet fish ask section id say try removing the friend to a quarantine area alone to reduce aggression. Is she larger then you that could be another reason for aggression... no ill give you real advice ignore her the best you can and let her make an *** out of herself. I had the same situation with one of my fiances friends or so called friends. She went so far as to try and turn my fiances parents against me only to further discredit herself. In the end she lost a friend and I got my girl. Just be the nice guy and shell have no ground to stand on. But if all else fails see if your LFS will take her back :). Best of luck

2007-05-01 13:08:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

Just relax a bit. You have done nothing wrong from your description. You must realize that you girlfriend is not likely to take her best friends side on this. She would miss you too much if the friend made her chose her. So, just sit back and know that you will likely be okay and the best friend is likely going to suffer the greatest loss. I do feel sorry for your girlfriend for having to put up with this. I have experienced a similar situation and my friend and now husband are still around and nobody is mad. Although, my friend was not a liar or manipulator.

2007-05-01 12:57:12 · answer #2 · answered by 354gr 6 · 0 0

I completely agree with icewing7… your LFS would be the best place to turn for advice, and unless your girlfriend or her friend is a pet or a fish I'd find another section. but seriously just relax,if your girlfriend dumps you cause of her friend,a quarantine tank at temperatures of 85F, no carbon filtration, and a few drops of copper sulfide should take care of it. malachite green is another option. If all else fails i would look for another girlfriend. good luck with your fish.

2007-05-01 14:19:40 · answer #3 · answered by CZAR 2 · 0 0

Maybe you should allow your girlfriend to spend more time with her friend. Have you ever offered all hanging out together? Could her friend be a lesbian? You all need to sit down and have a chat it sounds like.

2007-05-01 12:53:56 · answer #4 · answered by Louise 4 · 0 0

Breakup, Site that her horrid friend was too much to bear and break up with her. Wait a week, when she calls to get back together with you take her back. If she doesn't call her horried fiend convinced her not too.

Find new girl who doesn't have friends.

2007-05-01 17:57:30 · answer #5 · answered by Palor 4 · 0 2

Her pal is jealous and resents you. Sounds as though she replaced into used to manipulating your lady pal who sounds susceptible and purely cries on each occasion her pal says grotesque issues approximately you. this is an illustration that your lady pal lacks the braveness to stand up for herself and so her pal knows she will get away with this variety of selfish behaviour. Your situation won't be along with her pal this is along with your lady pal, for she is the guy who helps her pal to act this form. Your lady pal desires to end appearing like certainly one of those helpless infant who innocently is caught between her pal and you. Time for her to stand up to her pal and get some admire for herself and you. think of roughly it this form, what if it have been your pal talking undesirable approximately your lady, what would you do? Cry and whinge, or guy up?have faith me, if your lady pal loves and respects then you definitely she desires to commence appearing like it.

2016-10-04 05:37:25 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Strange stuff.
I'd find a new girl friend who values both her female and male relationships for what they are.

2007-05-01 12:56:47 · answer #7 · answered by katiedee 1 · 0 0

I'm going to go with what Louise T said.

2007-05-01 13:00:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If one of you isn't a fish your in the wrong forum.

2007-05-01 15:17:56 · answer #9 · answered by PeeTee 7 · 1 0

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