What do u do when you some one you love has just died?

Answer 1

Cry, Breathe, Touch their clothes, Cry, Smell their pillow, Breathe, Read their writing, Talk to family members, Cry, Wear their jewellery, Breathe, Look at Pictures, Cry, Write them a letter, Go for a walk & breathe, Cry...

Mostly just remember, feel the love and don't rush through it.

Breathe and Cry.

Answer 2

You go on the best you can. With every passing day the pain decreases. Do you think this person would have wanted you to sit around and mope over them?Probably not. Sometimes life sucks and losing someone close to you probably tops all of them,but its a law of nature and happens to everyone sooner or later. All you can do is remember this person in your heart and dedicate your future actions to the rememberance of this person. You may also want to make a memorial to this person to show the world and God just how important this person was to you. You could plant a tree or makea garde, etc. This works for both adults as well as children. Just never forget what this person has taught you and make sure to pass that lesson on to someone else to keep the memory going. Sorry for your loss and good luck

Answer 3

Just because the body has gone back into the earth does not mean that the spirit is dead. Love never dies. Just because you cannot see this person with your five senses does not mean that they do not exist. Say "I love you and I'll miss you terribly, but I release you to go on to your next adventure!" Whenever you miss this person, just sit with it, own your feelings, allow the feelings to come to the surface, cry, scream, whatever you have to do, but let it flow. The pain will get lighter over time. Try to remember the funny times..that helps

Answer 4

you cry a lot you hurt for a long time
you never stop loving that person no matter what happens
but you do learn to live with the pain you just take one day at a time keep putting one foot in front of the other
what ever you do dont sit around mulling over it keep busy get out and live your life to the full
who ever it is that has passed would not want to see you sitting around wasting your life
you can still go out and have fun
they will never leave your heart
even if you learn to love someone else you will still have that part of your heart that belongs to them
it will be hard for a long time but you do get through it
dont be afraid to talk about them and one day the memories will not hurt so much they will again be good memories to be enjoyed and shared
you do get through it
be strong

Answer 5

Take it one day at a time. If that's too hard right now, take it one hour at a time, one minute at a time. If they were in pain, be grateful that they aren't anymore. Remember the good times you had, and know that that person wouldn't want you to be sad.

As far as arrangements, ask a friend or family member for help. You probably aren't thinking very clearly. You will need to find a funeral home and such. You probably won't be good at making decisions, so rely on others.

I'm sorry for your loss.

Answer 6

Give yourself plenty of time to grieve. It takes different people different lengths of time. Try to focus on the good memories. Realize that the person was just borrowed here on this Earth for a short time. None of us are promised tommorrow, but thank God you got at least some time with this person. They will never really be gone as long as you're living, because they live on inside of you. :) Hang in there, it does get easier to live in spite of your heart's grief.

Answer 7

Celebrate the persons life, don't mourn their death.

It's easier said than done, but it does help. I lost my father last January, and did not realize it then that I should not be sad about his earthly departure, but celebrating the life he had given me and that he had been there for me for good or ill.

Also, it is okay (even for men) to cry. It is healthy to release
the feelings that seem overwhelming at times. Tears are what make us human.

Answer 8

You ask why and then remember that there is a higher being that can and will remember this love one - He knows every hair on everybodys head even the ones that have feeled out . He will remember your love one .

Answer 9

losing a friend or a loved one is one of the hardest things to deal with, you have to go through the grieving process, and you learn to get over the person, but you also learn never to forget the person.. sorry for your loss

Answer 10

Grieve, then make sure that you celebrate the life they lived while here, remember the many gifts they gave you such as laughs and memories. I am sorry for your loss. God Bless you!