There is this girl that I see everyday that I had a crush on for a few years. We became good friends and such. We would walk to lunch from to class together everyday. She would always try to sit next to me in class and we would laugh and have funny conversations. When things were at their peak I decided to do the dumbest thing I had ever done. I asked her out. She turned me down. Since then she has been ignoring me completely. She sort of being a jack *** about it. I mean I'm an extremely nice guy (I'm not exagurating). I try to start conversations like "how are you"? But she always says "okay" and turns away. She never laughs at my jokes but cracks up when someone says "pudding". She doesn't even look at me or wants to be around me. I don't have a crush on her anymore and I just want to be friends with her again. The problem is I don't want to confront her about it because she seems like shes just waiting for me to do that so she can scream at me. I'm not sure what to do
2007-05-01 12:30:19 · 8 answers · asked by leafshadow 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ok..well...
it seems like, the way you put it, that she doesnt seem interested in you anymore, (sorry), and if you said that she was a really good friend but now she is acting like a jerk...she isnt a good friend, and she isnt a true friend either. because if she was the friend that you knew before this happened, then why would she be doing this to you now. think about it. would a real friend do that to you. why would she not talk to you just because you asked her out. personally, i would move on. but that is just me. friendships are tough though...i know what you are going through....hahaha....almost the exact same thing actually! but anyways...feel free to write back!
i hope everything goes well!
-Camille
2007-05-01 12:40:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your frustration and predicament, but hey, she really is not worth your time anymore. Don't waste anytime on someone who treats you that way and does not want to give you the time of day. It sounds to me like she is being immature.
Who's to say, she just may be one of those people that want nothing to do with you and if you ignore her, maybe she will start coming around. If she does, turn the table a bit and show her how it really feels.
2007-05-01 12:36:18 · answer #2 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stay away & give her time. Usually when I boy pulls away then the girl wonders why & comes looking to see what is up...
Plus if you are not interested, move on. there are plenty of girls who'd like a nice guy friend like you!
good luck to U!
2007-05-01 13:32:59 · answer #3 · answered by ready2go67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
se the thing is that ya 2 have been friend for along time and now you are asking her out .that not rigth and she look at you as a brother and you look at her in .a new way so just tell her that you are sorry about that and tell her that you just want .to be her friend .not a boyfriend and ask her to forgive you that is what i will do if I want my friend back.
2007-05-01 12:38:21 · answer #4 · answered by my h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say forget her. I wouldnt waste the time or energy. Course, you could always try to confront her. If she does end up being a witch bout it, forget her, be friends with someone else.
2007-05-01 12:36:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you crossed the line. that happens sometimes and theres not much you can do about it. you just gotta move on and get a new friend. someday, she will realize that shes being childish and shell talk to you again. until then you are just outta luck.
2007-05-01 12:34:29 · answer #6 · answered by Bobby L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her ow you feel and say sorry for asking her out and you justa and you just want to be friends
2007-05-01 12:35:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave her alone and dont worry about but u sound SPUNG!!!!!!!!! but just leave her alone she will see u anit talkin 2 her and she would want u 2 talk 2 her {4 once}......have u tried that
2007-05-01 12:39:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋