My wife thinks that I should have sex with her when she is having her period. I feel that the period discharge on my body is a turn off. Should she be mad with me?
2007-05-01 12:05:55 · 17 answers · asked by olfarbemeister 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no she shouldnt be mad, but you should defenitly sit down w/ her and explaine to her why you feel uncomfortable with this situation. the main thing is to let her know ur not rejecting her. that may be the real reason why shes mad. no woman wants to be rejected by her man no matter what the reason is. just make her feel loved. be honest, but not gross. remember this is a touchy situation for women. buy her some chocolates or sweets. rent some movies or take her to the movies. rub her feet the works! and fyi when women go through this we are uncomfortable and somtimes in pain. oh! dont forget moody! we really just want to make sure your there for us. we just need some extra love and attention i hope this helps. goodluck!
2007-05-01 12:38:32 · answer #1 · answered by gilma m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some women are very horny when the get their period. There is nothing gross about having sex during her period. Just take a shower afterwards if you're grossed out by the period discharge.
2007-05-01 19:11:51 · answer #2 · answered by DEBBIE G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Heck no *laughs* a lot of men hate the idea of being covered in blood. My fiance is another man who dislikes it, and most of my exes have been the same way. I have probably only had one ex who hasn't had a problem with it.
The thing with your wife; she's probably at her most sexually responsive during her period (I know that is the case with me).
I think you should both talk about other ways to fulfill each other during this time. Vaginal sex is not the only way for both of you to be pleased :)
Good luck!
2007-05-01 20:13:52 · answer #3 · answered by xian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a female, and i dont think that she should be mad. It is how you feel. I don't feel like its the best hygiene in the world to have sex when on your period, but everyone is different. try to explain to her that it makes you uncomfortable and is a turn off.
2007-05-01 19:35:40 · answer #4 · answered by THE-KNoW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
~ I also get extremely horny around my period, My husband does not like it while I'm on it, So I found out when I would be starting every month and We plan it for the day before I actually start then I won't be going crazy with the need and grossing him out.
Try that... Find out if she is on a 28 day cycle or a 30 day and write it on the calender for a reminder for you.
And that should help you and her out!
Have Fun!
2007-05-01 19:24:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men have no problem with it, others do. My husband preferred not to make love during my period. Fine by me. She should not be mad at you, she should be understanding.
2007-05-01 19:09:36 · answer #6 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't thinks she should be mad with you but keep in mind that when a woman is on her cycle her hormones are screaming so its not a bad thing but she should respect your wishes not to make love during that time of month for her.
GOOD Luck!!
2007-05-01 19:44:17 · answer #7 · answered by Grown Lady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many women report being their horniest during that time of the month. She's probably just trying to take advantage of that. If I were you, I'd try to mitigate the circumstance (condoms, douche, etc..) and figure some way to work it out.
2007-05-01 19:13:06 · answer #8 · answered by Vincent 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that is disgusting and rude of her to even think about getting mad about it. i wont let anyone touch me, let alone have sex with me when im on my period. i think you should just tell her how gross you think it is, and that you love her.
2007-05-01 19:10:24 · answer #9 · answered by .life.love&happiness. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no she shouldn't but most women are the most hornyest at this time but if you don't like it. then tell her. she will have to live with it or you will have to meet her half way, try doing it in the shower, take a shower after wards. hope i helped
2007-05-01 19:24:31 · answer #10 · answered by ickybones2000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋