i am in a relationship with children and cheating with a married man i am wanting to put an end how do i do it

Question

although we have only been fooling around for about 2 wks we both have children at home with our spouses my b/f caught us kissing in the back parking lot one night a couple days ago n i wante d to end it but it will be difficult to avoid him since we are both employed at the same establishment how should i go about the rest of this process?

Answer 1

stop going out with him, stop calling him, stop answering his calls.....easy enough

Answer 2

Take a deep breath. Turn around. Put one foot in front of the other. Never look back. Seriously, the simplest things can seem like the hardest. Maybe cutting off all contact all of a sudden seems harsh, but what's more important to you? You know how to do it, but I'm guessing you are wondering what to say or how to say it... Say, "I can't do this anymore." and leave it at that. You can do it, you just need courage. No on on here can give you that because you have it, you're just not using it. Just do what you already know is right. Just like the band-aid analogy... don't sit there wincing in pain as you slowly peel it away... just do it and do it quick.

Answer 3

Cut all ties and let it go! Just let it go! Think about how many people would be hurt, think of the emotional impact on the children, think of what this will end up truly costing you in the long run (not talking about money). In other words, his feelings (or her feelings or your feelings don't count) it's way bigger than that. So, take a stand and do what's right. Just let go and stop! Ask God to forgive you and put what really goes first, first.

Answer 4

wooooooo...
always a bad idea when you fool around with a coworker...

if the guy has a supirior status over you... which can really influence the workload or work time or even the line between employed and unemployed..... you might want to start looking for an another opening... because it is just gonna get worse... if not you'll just be stick to your job right now... bye bye promotions.
If it's the other way around, do whatever.

Answer 5

you tell him that you are sorry that you got involved with him and love your bf and no that what you two have been doing is wrong and that you would really like to not cause any problems at work. And you should advise him to tell his wife/girlfriend that he has been messing around and she should get tested because hon i've found out the hard way that you can bet your butt he wasn't just screwing you. He probably had other women that he was messing with and most of the time these jerks don't stop and care if they are going to get an std.

Answer 6

Be honest. You need to not only be honest with yourself but with your spouse. If you really want to stop and be done with it forever, stop hiding things. Figure out what the real problem is and work on that before you go to someone else. I have been hurt too and hell I have actually cheated, it isn't easy to be on either side of the fence and you just need to be honest and determine the best way to fix the problem. Not just the cheating, but the real problem.

Answer 7

Read 2 Samuel 11-12. Maybe your answer is there

Answer 8

Do you both love each other enough to completely flip your worlds upside down and endure the emotional and financial costs this will bring?

If you both confidently can answer "YES" then by all means please continue.

But if you or he have any doubt, you better pause, re-evaulate and if you still are not able to answer "YES" after this, then you both have to agree to halt it immediately and never see each other again EVER! Not even think about each other!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 9

Give me a break. You don't need anyone to tell you to stop, your morals should of done that along time ago!

Answer 10

You had the lack of morals and lack of empathy for both your husband and his wife. How 'bout you figure it out?

Answer 11

Simple, just keep your dang legs closed and get your priorities in order.