Even tho i have LOTS of friends i chill wit, it feels like im not gettin da attention i want. and i don want to sound all self sentered or anything but i think its mostly becuz of my low self esteem and im kinda shy. there are times where i do feel like i fit in but its only temporaliy and its only for a little while. what should i do
2007-05-01 11:11:15 · 1 answers · asked by savannah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Understand that everyone feels that way, o yes everyone. The fact is we wear faces thanks to good old society and in time you too well get more comfrontable wearing a mask to hide your true feelings. Of course you could go agaist the grain and just spend time getting to know you, getting to like you, and getting to know more about what well make you happy. Also realize that it doesn't matter how many friends you got, its all trumped by one great friend... so maybe concentrate on finding atleast one person that doesn't make you feel that way. I did and its made all the difference in my life, because you get better at it each time. Remember quality not quantity..... or your forced to deal with wearing a mask and only getting a small pride bust for a limited amount of time. Its the same basics as what makes people sleep around with multiple partners are makes them happy with just one... think about it..... besides its on you to make you happy, your failing yourself.....
2007-05-02 09:31:31 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋