together but he has 5 other children and 2 of them where made while we were together. I know this seems like a nobrainer but I am having a hard time breaking it off. What should I do to let him know it is over for good?
2007-05-01 10:25:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Be packed and moved out before he comes home (assuming you live together) Dont tell him where you moved to and dont answer any of his calls.
2007-05-01 10:29:02 · answer #1 · answered by Worried wife 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be honest to yourself as well to him. Let him know that you are to good of a person to be subjected to that. Tell him the dangers that he's putting you in by sleeping around! You need to protect yourself so that you can protect your children. What you put up with now will show your children how to act when they become older. I know it's hard! Been there - done it. But I really did feel so much better after I left. And who knows, maybe by standing your ground, he'll realize what a good thing he has lost. Good Luck!
2007-05-01 17:42:26 · answer #2 · answered by ttousita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way he is going to know for good is if you actually do it for good. You can say things until you are blue in the face and it won't matter because you need to put your words into action. You know "Actions speak louder then words" Leave and dont look back as far as the relationship between you and him goes. You can't avoid him because you have children..but you can keep it at a level of doing things for the kids and thats it.
2007-05-01 17:35:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why are you still with him if he has been cheating from day one ?Please you deserve more respect from a man.I know sharing children makes it even harder.But my advice is lay it on the line tell him it is over.No women should be with a man if he is going to cheat and show such disrespect toward the family.Please think with your brain not your heart.Us women tend to avoid the bad things and think of well..we have children, i love him bla bla please wake up!!! I wish you the best of luck to finally gain corage and strength.
2007-05-01 17:45:11 · answer #4 · answered by Brianna M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get an attorney. Get child support. Consider marriage before you have any more children.
2007-05-01 17:33:41 · answer #5 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This sounds very disfunctional. WAKE UP. Try leaving. Try serving him with child support papers. Start dating someone else.
Why have you put up with this for so long?!? If you can't break it off, then I say that you deserve this.
2007-05-01 18:00:54 · answer #6 · answered by ciberpunk1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I told you how I really felt I'd get one of those violation notices.
How on earth did you allow yourself to be w/this complete loser and even worse..have kids w/o getting married/?You made your bed , now it's time to get out. He's a 100% loser and if you stay w/him..well I just can't say it..
2007-05-01 17:30:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Empty the bank account, grab the kids and leave to a relative or friends house until you sort it out. He's not gonna change
2007-05-01 17:30:22 · answer #8 · answered by Kelly773 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just leave, if you have to leave him a note. I know it sounds messed up but you really need to get out of that relationship.
2007-05-01 17:34:14 · answer #9 · answered by Va princess 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WTF is he??? A Rabbit???!
And While I often agree with "Starla's" answers, she dropped the ball on this....ANY committed relationship where the couple both AGREE to be monogamous one person straying would still be cheating!
By Starla's logic, I suppose if she found out her husband had sex with three strippers the night BEFORE her wedding, that would not be considered cheating, I suppose?!
2007-05-01 17:46:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋