Friday is my 1st wedding anniversary (although we've been together for over 4 years). I have the day off work - but obligations starting early saturday, so going out of town is out of the question, but we have a friend staying at our place (so we're not alone). What is appropriate for a 1st anniversary? Just dinner? My husband said he will do "whatever I want" and I am at a loss. HELP PLEASE!
2007-05-01 09:22:16 · 11 answers · asked by AriesJWR 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In my first marriage, on the one year anniversary, we had no money, and no where to go. So we ate the top tier of our frozen wedding cake, popped a bottle of cheap $ 3 wine (haha...I can laugh at this now...we're divorced), and said our I love yous and listened to music, and I guess you can guess what else. Supposedly, paper is the 1 year anniversary gift. I'd say suprise him wearing a paper dress, then tear it off right in front of him and say, "Happy Anniversary, Honey!" but...if you have guests, you might not wanna do that. However, you COULD rent a hotel for the night, have dinner, then go back, and do that! :)
2007-05-01 09:32:12 · answer #1 · answered by a_lot_smarter_now 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's something creative that will be appreciated and you will have fun doing:
Make up a crossword puzzle and have all the hints be personal inside moments and jokes that only you two would know about. Put it on a poster board and add some clipart and some pictures to it!
The crossword puzzle could be time consuming and a bit frustrating ... you could do the same idea with a WORDSEARCH or WORDFIND puzzle.
Put your computer skills to work! Use Excel, get clipart from Yahoo Images Search, copy them, and reformat them, use a gluestick to put on posterboard.
Use graph paper, and pictures from magazines if you are not as good on the computer, and it will give it a homemade feeling.
2007-05-01 16:04:47 · answer #2 · answered by Reserved 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let your husband off the hook with that weak response. It's both of your wedding anniversary. Make him help you decide...this is a red flag for later. He will eventually forget your anniversaries
2007-05-01 09:29:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband took me on a two week holiday all paid for to Turkey, it was fantastic, so dont let your husband off that easily. I would pospone doing something on your actual anniversary date until your guest has gone. Once you have time to yourselves you can do what ever you want
2007-05-01 09:34:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-21 05:54:36 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with a massage together, and maybe get a room for the night, with a jacuzzi and just enjoy each other for the night with no one around because I know that having people in your home gets aggravating...
2007-05-01 09:33:47 · answer #6 · answered by In love with Life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first one is classed as paper the symbol for anniversary, have a candle lit dinner, bottle wine and a romantic film
2007-05-01 09:30:42 · answer #7 · answered by leigha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, try logging onto www.iwantthat.com
and u will find ALOT of random things even rice paper underwhere so that wud b apprpriate cuz its ur 1st anniversary nd dat meens paper!
2007-05-01 09:37:16 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about dinner, or maybe going to a salon and getting a massage together?
2007-05-01 09:27:11 · answer #9 · answered by Valerie S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st = paper.
Weave a paper thong and wear it for him during dinner served on paper plates.
If you can't weave a paper thong, do one of those cool samurai hats.
Then screw like hungry tigers.
2007-05-01 09:51:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋