My sister (22 years old) is dating a mexican and no offence but but I dont like him because he beats her all the time over stupid things like if she wants to go see our mom longer and I'm getting tired of it because I love my sister and it just is not right. So can you help me please i really want to hel[p my sister out so what can I do to help?
2007-05-01 09:19:41 · 11 answers · asked by gangstergirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First of all, being a Mexican has nothing to do with it. Abusers come in all races. Second, if you are present when he beats her, CALL THE POLICE!!! Third, you can't save someone who doesn't want to be saved. Your sister has to want to be out of this relationship for this to work. Let her know constantly that you and your family are there for her and that you will do anything to help her. Tell her that you'll go with her to get a restraining order. But she is the one who has to be ready to end it permanently, not you. Good luck.
2007-05-01 09:55:35 · answer #1 · answered by stseukn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to her about it? Im guessing she thinks this is fine. She needs to get out of the relationship and fast before she really gets hurt. Is there a parent who can step in? It might be hard on you but tell her if she is hit again you are going to the police. She will tell you its not your business but you can reply with you love her and if she cant see the danger she is in then you can. Tell the police and that is all you can do. Sadly, she is in charge of her life even if she just screws it up. Learn from her and dont make the same mistakes!
2007-05-01 16:26:34 · answer #2 · answered by bighelp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her and protect her how you can. Her relationship is, ultimately, her business. Tell her you'll help her when she's ready to leave him, and until then, you have to just wait it out. There's very little you can do other than be there for your sister, and pray for the best.
2007-05-01 16:33:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he bits her up he doesn't love her. When you love someone the last thing you want to do is hurt that person. Your sister needs to live him and find someone who will value what she is. Help her see that its not worth living with someone like that. One day he may even kill her.
2007-05-01 16:25:06 · answer #4 · answered by muñeca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First -and yes, I am going to say it - it is not relevant whatsoever that he is Mexican.
What IS relevant is that you say he beats her. THAT is something that needs to cease immediately - however, only she can stop it. She must end this relationship right away while concurrently getting a restraining order to protect herself.
2007-05-01 16:27:01 · answer #5 · answered by sage seeker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothin you can do but to do nothin cause you cannot take decisions for another being. the best way to live is accept things as it is not as you want them to be cause that never works and by living this way you can feel more freedom and happiness in your life.
2007-05-01 16:26:30 · answer #6 · answered by rumesh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your sister to get the hell out and get help. If she doesn't want help, you can't help her. It's like people on drugs -- they're not gonna stop unless THEY want to; someone else telling them to stop doesn't mean jack.
2007-05-01 16:25:51 · answer #7 · answered by KaLei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be calling the police get him in jail so he cant bother her
2007-05-01 16:24:42 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have a nice long chat with
THE POLICE !
2007-05-01 16:24:42 · answer #9 · answered by Achilles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where are your parents?
tell them, tell a policeman!
2007-05-01 16:24:03 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋