he jokes around with me all the time but I can't tell if he is serious about that or if he just wants to see what I say?
2007-05-01 08:47:58 · 15 answers · asked by kareber04 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Ask for proof, and dont believe him until you hear it from a doctor. I made the mistake of believing someone a long time ago that he was "sterile". Our daughter will be 15 very soon. Another friend of mine was told by her boyfriend that he was "sterile" because of getting the chicken pox late in life, and a severe case too. Needless to say, THEIR daughter is now 11. So, unless he hands you certified medical proof signed by a doctor, dont believe it.
2007-05-01 08:54:14 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs Z. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him why he cant there has to be a reason why he cant or maybe he just doesnt want to. If you 2 love each other then you need to know details because if you want kids and he doesnt then maybe it wont work but if he really cant have kids then you can always adopt.
2007-05-01 08:52:48 · answer #2 · answered by ltlmomma22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eventually he will realize that he has to have kids some day! what he means by he can't have kids is that he doesn't want any right now but when the time is right y'all will get y'all bundle of joy and her will be a proud father and that "i can't have kids" faze will go right out of the window when he see what he contributed to! just wait for him he will come to!
2007-05-01 08:52:30 · answer #3 · answered by Tam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you're going to have to confront him about it sometime, so why not now? If he really can't have kids, that doesn't mean you have to leave him or anything, adoption is still an option and let him know that if hes joking, that you don't think its funny and if he respects you, he'll stop.
2007-05-01 08:51:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are but if your a teenager.... he might just be trying to "get some". If not.. then you should be old enough to tell him that you seriously want to discuss it and that he should be mature enough to come up with some sort of reasonable explaination. IF YOU REALLY WANT HIS CHILDREN HE SHOULD BE ABLE TO TALK TO YOU !!
2007-05-01 08:53:09 · answer #5 · answered by jamiesparents2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would sit him down and say, "honey I have to talk to you about something very serious. You know that I want kids one day, and you've mentioned that you can't have them. Is this true? Do you have documentation to back this up?" and see what he says.
2007-05-01 08:52:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get Your b/f Sperm tested. When I was Younger I helped 2 couples get pregnant one man was sterile the other female was just tired of waiting, "his ego got in there way". but just check him out. first then go from there.
2007-05-02 10:33:52 · answer #7 · answered by dvdlevns 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get proof because more then likley he is lying and do not sleep with him with out protection unless you are okay with he chance of becoming pregnant
2007-05-01 08:56:21 · answer #8 · answered by lisamarie7901 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mine said the same thing and surprise I am now 5 months pregnant!.....don't believe it ! I am estatic that we are having a baby ! take him to get his sperm count to make sure he cant have kids
2007-05-01 08:53:00 · answer #9 · answered by Badkarma4me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask for proof...HOW did he find out this information about himself? tested in a lab? or based on a string of 'no accidents'?
2007-05-01 08:50:48 · answer #10 · answered by motherhendoulas 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋