2007-05-01 07:12:05 · 24 answers · asked by *RA RA* 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Til the other person makes it right again!
2007-05-01 07:17:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I think the longer you hold a grudge for, the heavier it will get. The grudge will then fester into rancour and bitterness, resentment and revenge. Negative emotions cause the person holding the grudge a lot of damage on spiritual and emotional even physical levels. Holding a grudge might hold a person back, preventing them from moving on. Hate begets hate. Getting ahead with our lives is more important than getting even. Releasing the grudge through forgiveness is so much more healthy and will release all that negative energy that’s festering inside. For everyone holding a grudge, try throwing it away and lighten your load. Polly
2007-05-01 07:26:08 · answer #2 · answered by pollyanna 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to think I was too lazy to hold a grudge and let things go, but then I couldn't take it anymore and started holding them. Depending on what someone does, I can hold grudges for quite a while.
2007-05-01 07:17:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 years
2007-05-01 07:16:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally, women hold a grudge until they get even and men call each other names and are over it.
2007-05-01 07:17:26 · answer #5 · answered by spencirye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I try not to hold grudges at all- my Mom is good at holding grudges and I don't want to follow in her footsteps when it comes to that.
2007-05-01 07:16:30 · answer #6 · answered by Cujo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for a very long time, once i got mad at my dad and didnt talk to him for 60 days and i lived with him and ate had breakfast lunch and dinner with him!!!!!! so i would say i can hold a grudge for a long time
2007-05-01 07:17:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now my longest grudge has been going on for the past three years...
2007-05-01 07:15:30 · answer #8 · answered by Molli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the world champion grudge holder.
2007-05-01 07:31:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I let them go. Ever see people with lots of wrinkles on their forheads? My gran called those lines, grudge lines. I was listening.
2007-05-01 07:17:53 · answer #10 · answered by NakasEvilTwin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I haven't talked to a grandmother of mine in over 11 years. That's too long. Don't be like me.
2007-05-01 07:31:49 · answer #11 · answered by gnrwar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋