There is a woman from China who already has one child. She is pregnant again and wants to keep the second child. Her husband and his family are telling her to have an abortion, but her and her parents want to keep it.
Her husband has a very high working status and will be taken from his position if he has a second child. WIth no work, their family will be left to starvation.
Their first child is about 8 years old and her parents live in the US...
She just came to the US on a Visa but didn't know about her pregnancy until she went back...
What should she do? How can she get back to the US?
Oh, and Abortion is NOT and option....
2007-05-01 01:39:41 · 9 answers · asked by all4gym08 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
This is not me
2007-05-01 01:59:40 · update #1
She doesn't want to leave her husband in China and her husband wants her first child.......
2007-05-01 02:03:45 · update #2
She can get another visa to come again to the United States temporarily. Perhaps she could time her visit with her delivery and the baby could be born here.
Has she considered offering the baby for adoption? I know it would be extremely difficult to give the child up, but I fear for the child since the father and his family are so hostile.
If my husband wanted to abort his own child I would be very fearful of bringing a baby home to him. Perhaps this child is the answer to another woman's prayers.
2007-05-01 01:45:34 · answer #1 · answered by Veritas 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
how would the people at his job know? is there a way you can keep the baby a secret? you should give the baby to your parents for a while until you have everything straightened out with you and your husband. That way you can you could go visit the child whenever you need to at your parents house. You could try and move to the US if you want and become a citizen. It'll take a lot of time though. There's a long process in becoming a US cit zen. your husband could get a new better job. I'm sure he'll be able to find one. Your husband should care about his family more than his job anyway. ITS ALWAYS SUPPOSED TO BE RELIGION FIRST....THEN FAMILY!!
2007-05-01 08:54:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a difficult choice.what i can advice her is that she should keep the baby.GOD gave her that baby.If she do abortion she will be opposing GOD"s will.if keeping the baby is going to destroy her husband"s job she should take that risk.Life is all about risks.GOD is our provider so he will do so.i hope she will do the right thing It was said in the Bible that women must give birth
Tell her to do what is going to please the greatest one Lord JESUS CHRIST.Abortion its a crime and is a sin.GOD bless her
2007-05-09 06:10:50 · answer #3 · answered by baby len 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
bring both her children back to america and stay with her parents until she can get on her feet and work. her parents sound like good people, i bet they would be willing to help. china has such screwed up rules about 1 child per family.
2007-05-01 08:46:49 · answer #4 · answered by Durty's Wifey 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She should contact an international law firm and a human rights organization. She may also be able to request political asylum at the US embassy.
2007-05-01 08:49:38 · answer #5 · answered by meanpressure0 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She does not have to say she is pregnant it is safe to fly after three months, tell her to book a "vacation" for two months time she will be perfectly safe to fly
2007-05-01 08:54:24 · answer #6 · answered by smitters06 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she lives in china and she should stay in china...were running out of room here people.
2007-05-08 20:41:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
that I dont know
2007-05-08 19:19:48 · answer #8 · answered by lovely 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get on a plane, maybe?
2007-05-01 08:45:38 · answer #9 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 5⤋