well i have a sex with my bf but i dont wanna to show it to my husband [next year i will marry] Is any medical test can prove it that i have a sex?
2007-05-01 01:30:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
So you have a boyfriend, and a fiance? Hmm.. Maybe you shouldn't marry your fiance. You don't seem ready for it. And no, there isn't a 'test' to prove that you've had sex with someone else. Unless it's a lie detecor test. Maybe you should just be upfront and honest with your fiance and tell him.
2007-05-01 01:34:24 · answer #1 · answered by jesa ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are obviously very immature and very stupid. Your calling this guy your husband and your getting married next year? How stupid is that. You have no clue what love and marriage is and payback is gonna be a *****.
Cancel the thought of having a husband. No stupid medical test will be the reason that if you get married, you'll be wasting alot of time, because your getting a divorce. I can definitely predict your future. Just don't get a child involved!
2007-05-01 08:50:59 · answer #2 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on whether or not he believes all virgins bleed their first time. After your first time you break/stretch the hymen and it bleeds, but if your an active woman, it could have broke during strenuous activities. As long as he wouldn't be suspicious when you don't bleed, then there's no medical way to prove or disprove that a woman is a virgin. Although I've known girls that had sex with different guys while on their periods to full the guy into thinking they were virgins.
Although I wonder why you have a boyfriend when you are engaged to another man. You should end that now. Or did you word your question wrong. Could it be that you had sex with a boyfriend in your past and now you are engaged to a different man and don't want him to know?
I have also heard that there is a surgery that can be done so that you will bleed when you have intercourse with your husband. It was created to fool husbands of woman in the eastern culture to believe his bride was a virgin so he wouldn't kill her for not being one. If that's the position you are in, you may want to research that.
Here's a link on a story about it.
http://www.nctimes.com/articles/2006/06/22/news/nation/23_06_516_21_06.txt
here's more links for hymen repair too.
http://search.yahoo.com/search?search=hymen+repair&ei=UTF-8&fr=ks-ans&ico-yahoo-search-value=http%3A%2F%2Fsearch.yahoo.com%2Fsearch&ico-wikipedia-search-value=http%3A%2F%2Fen.wikipedia.org%2Fwiki%2FSpecial%3ASearch&p=hymen+repair
2007-05-01 08:38:49 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if I understand your question. Your boyfriend is not who you are marrying next year? If that is the case, then no, there is no way to tell whether you have had sex or not unless you have given birth. Do make sure that you are free of sexually transmitted diseases before you get married. It would be unfair for your future husband to get something and your responsibility to tell him if you do have something. Good luck with the wedding.
2007-05-01 08:35:40 · answer #4 · answered by barehands 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, there is no way to tell if a woman has had sex. They could check for a broken hymen, but you see, some women are born without hymens and many woman break their hymens from playing sports, climbing fences or masturbating.
I don't know where you are from, but marrying a man who cares and must know about whether or not you are a virgin is a really bad idea. No comment on the boyfriend/fiance thing. I don't care, but respect yourself and don't marry a virgin hunter!
2007-05-01 08:34:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wait...you have both a boyfriend and a soon to be husband?
If so, you've got bigger issues than having the fact that you're having sex being discovered!
2007-05-01 08:33:53 · answer #6 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
STOP HAVING SEX WITH PEOPLE!
dear God
yes, the guy you are going to marry WILL know you are having sex!
why are you marrying someone you dont love?
keep your legs closed!!!
2007-05-01 08:38:29 · answer #7 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes there is a medical test to prove you're not a virgin but your future hubby will be able to tell without the test, you're hymen won't be there and he will be able to feel that.
Good luck explaining to him why it is not there.
2007-05-01 08:36:02 · answer #8 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
yes, but does that concern alot? If your husband love you, he should not mind abt this.
2007-05-01 08:33:35 · answer #9 · answered by Darren 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should have waited but if it bothers you that much maybe you should tell him
2007-05-01 08:33:48 · answer #10 · answered by Chloe 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋