my rents found my cigs?

Question

my mom went to my room and found my lighter. the next mornin (today) my mom and dad found my cigs. the bad thing is that i told them i took them from my friend and was going to give them to the principal. instead they drove me to school and gave them to the principal- themselves. now i dont know what to do bc i didnt have any trust with them in the first place. and i kneed soe cigs they calm me down.

Answer 1

i say fvk that i mean really they can't stop u get some! whateva!!! that's lyk when i got caught sneakin' out mii rents grounded me!!! lyk what r u grounduing me from SNEAKIN' out!!! whateva people need 2 realize they don't hav all tha control they thynk they hav!!!

Answer 2

Ahhh, trust. You are going to have to build a foundation that trust can be built upon. The lie of "They're my friend's cigs," was not, I'm sure, your first lie to them, was it? It's hard to carry on with smokes and drinking (if that was ever a problem) without telling a few lies to cover it up. Parents were kids once too. They've done some of the same things you will be doing so ...... they know the signs.

If you "need" your smokes to calm you down ..... you've fallen into addiction to the most addictive drug in the United States, nicotine. It's hard to kick. ..... You do know, I'm sure, that smoking can and will kill half of all of those who take up the habit, don't you? ............. You should, perhaps, look into quitting smoking and find your calming activity in something less destructive such as reading or listening to music, or even playing music. Learn to play guitar or something.

Hob

Answer 3

Hie Lip. Well to my opinion it is such a young age for you to start smoking,because it can really effect you at the later stage, but when your parents finds that out and you put the blame to one of your friends then this is not a good idea if you tell the person's name he or she will be extreamly mad at you and the teacher in charge will take a seriouse action against him or her you'll be in a big trouble then. Iguess it is better for you to tell the truth to your parents instead of you lieing to them, and your principle, and this can also lead to a seriouse destination which call as drugs, this could be the starting of the destination towards to drugs and it will also lead you to a hay wire of stuff, like if the police caught you then you'll be in jail and also will spoil your future, you don't want to see parents be sad right? so think about it and maybe you can have some gum or treat yourself for a ice-cream to calm you down. Another way is you can treat yourself by watching a movie with some friends during the weekends this could calm you down too....Hope this advice will help you.........

ALL THE BEST........

Answer 4

You don't have trust from your parents because of the things you keep doing to make them not trust you. Trust is something that you have to earn and it seems as though you're not really interested in earning trust nor respect from your parents. Instead of doing things that you know they'd be upset about how about doing things that will make them proud of you.

Obviously you're not old enough to be smoking so why are you and who got you started.

Why in the world would you lie on your friend like that and run the risk of getting your friend in trouble? Now you could end up getting your friend in trouble in school and at home. If your friend was smart they'd not speak to you after you've decided to cover your butt by lying and putting everything on them.

To get trust back with your family and your friend tell the truth. Everyone will be upset at first but will eventually see you as a big person for finally telling the truth. Don't let your friend get in trouble over a lie that you're telling just to save your butt. Be a bigger person and tell the truth before it's to late.

Answer 5

The reason you gave your parents for the having the cigs and lighter is a "old" excuse. Everyone at some point say this and more than likely your parents used it when they were your age.

You lied to your parents, so they are having an issue trusting you.

A bit of advice to all the teenagers out there. Honesty is the best policy when it comes to your parents. If you lie to them and they find out the punishment is greater than if you were to tell them the truth. We know when you lie to us. :)

Answer 6

number one you shouldn't be smoking.. its a very nasty habit.
about the whole trust thing... they had a right not to trust you because you did lie to them.... oh and the excuse "they are my friends" has been way over done, like the dog ate my homework excuse. that's one of the reasons they didn't believe you, another they probably already expected something, parents have that intuition, and you also probably somewhat smell like cigs... you may not think so b/c your use to the smell but someone who doesn't smoke can smell it a mile away. so what you need to do is quit cigs and find another way to calm down.... i listen to music, draw, and sometimes find somewhere i can be alone just to think

Answer 7

umm I guess you need to tell the truth before your friend gets in trouble over your things. Its part of life when you do something behind your parents backs, and then you lie about it it just makes a bigger problem. If your still in school maybe you shouldn't be doing it. Try some gum that helps calm you down.

Answer 8

Why do you want to smoke for, it stinks!

Just give up ,it is easier than living a lie and soo much better for your health. If you need to calm down, go for a fast run.

Answer 9

well youre killing yourself with those cigarettes and glad they found them..its one thing having your privacy but when it comes to your health they have the right to know whats going on with you..dont smoke sweety so many health compllications get involved with smoking

Reg. nurse practioner

Answer 10

sounds like a perfect time to quit, try using gum to calm yourself down.