We were just doing it over the phone..it was the first time...help. I am not gay..what do I do??
2007-05-01 01:03:52 · 20 answers · asked by larry t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If this is a serious question and you were indeed having phone sex with a male friend, you might want to really question your sexuality. You also need to rebuild trust in your marriage. Once trust is broken, it puts a huge strain on a relationship.
2007-05-01 01:08:01 · answer #1 · answered by BAnne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 Ask yourself---WHY?
#2 What did you expect her to say?Think? Feel?
#3 Seek guidance from a marriage counselor or pastor.
#4 Get in touch with your true feelings and decide where and how you want to live your life--with or without the wife.
#5 Couldn't you just have "tweeked" in a corner somewhere with a magazine????LOL!!! Or at least have had phone sex with a WOMAN? It IS still cheating on your wife! It doesn't matter about the gender of the individual you were having phone sex with... you violated your wife and did not consider her feelings..............same sex violation may have caused even MORE pain making your wife wonder what the hell did she do wrong to make you go for GUYS..................
2007-05-01 08:57:52 · answer #2 · answered by Quad Momma LUV the dunes! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're not gay, but you're probably bisexual either that or you're just experimenting late in life. Who cares dude, just be faithful to your wife next time. Cheater!
2007-05-01 08:15:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is that all she's worried about? I mean, if this were my guy, I'd be more upset over the fact that in my mind, he's cheating on me.
Maybe you and her have a different arrangement then. Anyway that aside, take her to the bedroom and show her you're not gay.
2007-05-01 08:09:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just keep telling yourself .....I'm not gay, over and over, and maybe one day it'll be true. Two guys having any kind of sex together is totally gay!!!!!
2007-05-01 08:53:27 · answer #5 · answered by Mr.G's wife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm...no. You're as gay as a three dollar bill. Soon you'll be playing butt darts behind your wife's back and giving her AIDS. Clean up your act, Bozo.
2007-05-01 08:19:01 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How did she find out, did she catch you in the act?
Ask your wife if she will have a 3some with your friend...lol
Good Luck
2007-05-01 08:37:03 · answer #7 · answered by kc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know she will more than likely divorce you over this right?? Not to mention she will never let you live this down. What the hell were you thinking??
2007-05-01 08:14:06 · answer #8 · answered by treasuredwife69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, what would yo do if it was her having phone sex with a girl friend?
Think about that one!
2007-05-01 08:11:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BASED on all your past questions YOU ARE SO GAY
2007-05-01 09:35:15 · answer #10 · answered by mother of 2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋