Why is true sexual addiction rare and what happens to a person in life that falls into this life's trap that is so destructive and why is the true recovery rate for a porn sexual addict almost impossible to recover and recovery rate very slim?
I think he is bi-sexual from conversational hints at seeing him at a gay bar with a gay co-worker. When confronted, he said it was just a joke, just to see what it was like as a laugh, now since I saw the porn pictures from the webb cam one activity was of a couple (man/women) encoutering sodomy. I don't know but one picture looked to be he was with a girl in the shower. The idea of leaving him permantely is looking better and better to me as I am fearful he has already made contact with his favoriate (porn) star and perhaps with intent to leave me, (my fears of abandoment) however, I truthfully don't care, peace of mind, truth, honesty has been non-existent. Roomate to a gay guy in college, a disappointment, was also his childhood friend.
2007-05-01 01:01:02 · 3 answers · asked by siremma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am sorry, I know my opinion will not be a popular one. I do not believe a person can be a sex addict or a porn addict. I do believe a person can be a drug addict, alcoholic, food addict, as well as addicted to smoking. Becuse these are things a person CAN put into their bodies and use as a means to alter their lives to make them bearable. The rest is bullshit for mostly men to cover for themselves. The only acceptable non-consumable addictions I personally feel that are ligit are gambling, shopping, and shoplifting. Because a person can get high from the rush. But, that is my 2 cents.
2007-05-01 01:33:29 · answer #1 · answered by treasuredwife69 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was in a long term realtionship with a porn addicted sex addict. The problem is that he became so preoccuppied with trying everything he saw, and dress up and the rest of the nonsense that we had no real relationship. Outside of bed we were strangers. It all went down hill when his endless appetite for experiment craved something I couldn't bring myself to do, and I'd been very liberal up to that point. He shut me down, physically, in order to manipulate me, he had to have it. My feelings didn't matter. It wasn't a minor thing he was asking for, but he could not let it go.
Ultimately, his frustration nearly killed me. Literally.
Yes, they can be addicted, and yes, it is a concern.
2007-05-01 08:41:54 · answer #2 · answered by Icewomanblockstheshot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being addicted to anything means it takes over your life completely... you can not think about anything but that addiction... you will do anything to get it, and in this case have sex with anyone...
2007-05-01 08:10:55 · answer #3 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋