what r the drawbacks/problems of masterbution while you are married, genuine reply pls?

Answer 1

in my opinion there will be no problems in a good working relationship/marriage as long trust and selfconfidence is there and in both partners.

Answer 2

I dont really think there are drawbacks, it is natural. Everyone does it and I think for a partner to expect you just to suddenly stop just because you're married is unrealistic. Most people have been doing it since their early teens. I expect that my partner does it, as I do (although I have no wish to walk in on him doing it!!). There are times when we are alone, and feeling sexually frustrated. Whats the alternative? cheat? not good. Pent up sexual frustration can cause arguements, irritation and snappy behaviour, so in my opinion, the more you do it, the more relaxed and happy you will be!!

Of course everything has its extremes and if someone is prefering masturbation to actually making love then there is an issue and some communication is needed. Also if there is a lot of porn involved, this could cause jealousy or trust issues.
Use your imagination, and enjoy a healthy sexual relationship with yourself!
xxx

Answer 3

There is nothing wrong with masturbation! There are no ill effects. It is not against the law. It is not immoral. It is a perfectly normal healthy thing done by 98% of men (the other two percent are liars.) I masturbate once or twice a day. Usually it consists of manual stimulation of my penis. Fingers around the guy and a regular back and forth (if standing) or up and down motion (if lying down). I don't normally require any visual assistance but certainly visuals will generate the desire to masturbate.
You can be assured that:
- you won't develop pimples, acne or zits;
- your penis will not get shorter;
- you will not be less intelligent;
- you will not grow hair on your palms;
- you will not lose hair or go bald;
- you will not go to hell (at least because of masturbating);
- you will not lose your mind;
- you will not become sterile;
- your penis will not fall off;
- your testicles will not decrease in size;
- your chance of being struck by lightning is not increase.
But you will be:
- your penis will likely become stronger;
- more relaxed;
- smiling most of the time;
- a perfectly normal man;
- and you will still produce enough eggs in your sperm.
So keep IT up and continue to enjoy. !

Answer 4

There should never be any drawbacks with masturbation whether or not you are in a relationship.

Some women find it difficult to cope if they find their man has been masturbating without realising that it's what men do and sometimes just need a quick fix. It has nothing to do with the feeling of inadequacy that their partner sometimes feels.

As long as you are open and honest in your relationship, masturbation shouldn't be a problem. Indeed, it can be a benefit if one partner has a stronger sex drive than the other.

Answer 5

None , at least your partner knows where you are and not getting someone pregnant or getting an STD.
You may become fixated on your fantasies and find them more various than your partner its up to them to seduce you !!!!!
Also be aware that constant masterbation can be a screen for depression whilst you are reaching orgasm your mind is taken off the problem
can you think of what that problem could be , If you have lost interst in your partne it should be obvious , do you have work or money probelems .
What forms does your fantasy take , do you desire a menage a trios ? A threesome ? do you find your parner unadventurous in bed is thier something you would like to try with them but '' Respect'' them too much to ask . ask away if they dont consider your sexual needs you have to get them elsewhwere which for you at this time is masterbatuion

Answer 6

I think there are very few drawbacks. It is normal to masturbate, even if you are married. Sometimes your spouse is not available, or not in the mood. It beats going out and cheating. You might have a higher sex drive than your spouse. The one drawback is if you use that instead of having sex with your spouse. Or if you are not interested in sex with your spouse, because you have masturbated. This can be sexually frustrating for your spouse. Look at the reasons you are doing it. Sometimes it is a great stress reliever.

Answer 7

There are no medical problems with masturbation, but it does tend to indicate that you two are not ideally matched emotionally. There could be many reasons for this., mostly to do with lifestyle. If you find yourself hiding away to do it too often, perhaps you should talk to her, or someone about the lack of sexual activity. There are other avenues (which usually cost money), but to answer your original question, there are no medical problems with masturbation, quite the opposite. It can reduce stress and the effects of stress, but not as much as regular sexual activity.

Answer 8

Masturbation need not be something that you do only when you are alone. Many people find the sight of their partner masturbating highly erotic. It can also be very instructive to discover how your partner reaches orgasm alone, as this will be the best method for you to adopt when you are masturbating him or her. Masturbating with your partner will break down inhibitions and allow you to get even closer.

Masturbating your partner in the way he or she enjoys is an important part of lovemaking, and many women like being masturbated to orgasm before penetration. Both men and women need to learn how to handle each other's genitals with tenderness and sensitivity.

Answer 9

I think this is a touchy subject. One would think that it's not bad because it doesn't hurt your partner. But I think it does. It's like having sex on the internet, you're satisfying yourself for a reason and your partner isn't there to share that with them. If she knew, she might be hurt by thinking that you're not satisfied by her or that she isn't able to please your needs in that way. I would suggest that you talk to her about what and why you are doing this, it just may bring you closer emotionally and truly be more rewarding than you think.

Answer 10

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Answer 11

the perfect reaction is not any reaction. enable him say regardless of he needs to assert to make himself experience more advantageous like a 'guy'. for sure u see that he's a low existence. If he retains contacting u, replace ur variety/digital mail.