why do people think love is just a ruined part in their lives even if they hadnt tried it or even tried to understand it???
in ur opinion, wat is love ???
i think love is the most wonderful thing in the world, do u think so??
2007-04-30 21:39:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
it's the social stigma. just like work. it has a stigma of being something you have to do to survive, and not something you want to do. you hear so much about broken hearts and infidelity, some people just automatically give love a bad name. i've had my heart broken, and may have broken a few myself. but to me, that just means i haven't found TRUE love yet. when your in love, it is the most wonderful thing on earth. but when you not, it just becomes another part of life.
2007-04-30 21:46:39 · answer #1 · answered by TaurusChickXO♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe love in a mate has more to do with rearing of offspring than anything else. You want to find a mate that would work to provide you, themselves, and any potential offspring with a long term stable environment, no matter what life's extremes might throw into the mix. And boy is it rough when you find they are unwilling or unable to full-fill the duties you have entrusted to them.
Many people seem to think of love in a mate like the parental love they may or may not have been shown in their own upbringing. Which seems to guide most relationships. Your not going to find this in a mate. You have to wait for your own children to feel this love.
When you look for that special someone don't really look for "love" so much as things that the two of you may have in common. What are their likes, goals and habits? Would you be willing to support them? And more importantly, would they support you? It's easier to be in love, when your not wanting to choke the life out of that special someone. :)
2007-05-01 06:44:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have waffle on the subject my whole life! When love failed I would convince myself that it was a mild form of obsessive behavior. Having fallen in love again recently I am currently sure that it is a wonderful thing. So to me love must be the kindest neurosis imaginable! HaHa!
2007-05-01 04:46:18 · answer #3 · answered by Matthew B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well love is a wonderful everyone needs it but there is a limit to it u cannot live only on love one must be independent of all such things to get ahead in life
love is essential but self respect and self reliance is more important than that.
thats my opinion anyway
2007-05-01 04:42:42 · answer #4 · answered by blackcat XIII 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love time is the spring time of our life but when we lose or have bad experience with this love or this spring it doesn't mean that we lose life but the life circle move and spring will come again
we only must be more cheerful and ambitious
2007-05-03 13:08:51 · answer #5 · answered by Adham 1910 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would be nice to experience it first, then I will know.
2007-05-01 04:53:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure but it is like fire it makes our life better but when you touch it you burn your fingers
2007-05-01 04:42:27 · answer #7 · answered by Mag 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they didn;t get it right.
2007-05-01 18:28:21 · answer #8 · answered by riodejaneirofun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is.........to bad certain people can't see that.......
2007-05-01 04:42:30 · answer #9 · answered by Daughter of a Coma Guy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋