We've been together for 6 years and STILLL he last for like under a minute!!! I tell him to think about dead cats or SOMETHING!!! and he still blows!!! any suggestions??? Or am I just that good? lol but really someone help!!!
2007-04-30 20:22:29 · 11 answers · asked by Wife + Mom = ME 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Have him read this:
http://www.askmen.com/love/love_tip_60/67_love_tip.html
It takes dedication, but in 6-8 weeks he could start seeing results.
Hope this helps!
2007-04-30 20:28:04 · answer #1 · answered by p37ry 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol yeah your just that good hehe ;-) I had an ex who was similar and it ended up being a very small medical problem which was resolved quickly and painlessly... BUT before we figured that out we just had to go at it like bunnies the first few times lol by the 3rd or 4th time he was lasting a little longer. If that doesnt work then just get him to do some "work" on you and focus all the attention on you until your close then go for it and hopefully come togther!
2007-04-30 20:30:40 · answer #2 · answered by Ange 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife will get me off first (some of the times) then I take my turn pleasuring her and by then I am up for the second round and she is very wet and good to go and I can last a very long time the second time! (by long I mean the first time is under 5 minutes, the second is 15 minutes maybe 20 at the most, we are human!)
Offer to take care of the first one for him and then tell him you want a second helping. See what he thinks!
Good Luck!
2007-05-01 03:57:30 · answer #3 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont ever bring this up to him in front of other people. IF you crush his ego you will loose him. However after 6 yrs you can talk to him about it. There are now meds he can get from the a DR. and Im sure something over the counter.
Good luck
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ps men are visually stimulated so turn out the lights!!!!!!!!!
2007-04-30 20:29:31 · answer #4 · answered by drtoolman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start slower and make it last as long as possible. Less heavy duty quick touching. Really get a lot more from things like back rubs for each of you, hugging, and kissing before the big push. That should stretch it out for a while.
2007-04-30 20:28:43 · answer #5 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I should have read this question before answering your last post. This is what's wrong with him. This is why he is holding back some affection to you because he feels bad that he cant last longer. You can help him on this. A good hand job before he has sex with you should do it. If 1 isn't enough to slow him down to your speed then give him another one. 2 "SHOULD" do it. As he gets older this problem will fix it's self.
2007-04-30 20:49:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL Dead cats. Get him...I don't know if i can say it on here...A cock ring. I hear it puts pressure on...well the man junk and helps slow down things. Or use condoms to reduce the sensitivity. You should take it as a complement i get he just gets too excited.
2007-04-30 20:28:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, this might stretch it a bit but tell him to try to strengthen his muscle in between his testicles and anus. It helps control his ejaculation. I do not know of any sites that might help him in describing how to do this. The best way I can think of is to try to squeeze this muscle about 100 times a day. If he is erect, his penis should be "bouncing". Most of you may laugh, but it works.
2007-04-30 20:29:30 · answer #8 · answered by Jamie T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
while you guys are going at it, have him stop when he feels he's about to.... stop for as long as possible and then just keep going it totally works. you can also try giving him a shot of tequila or something a lot of guys say that works for them and makes them last longer... good luck..
2007-04-30 20:35:44 · answer #9 · answered by kchilian85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take a short break after sex and do it a second time. He'll last long then.
2007-04-30 20:28:12 · answer #10 · answered by Rooooooooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋