How to get my man to get me pregnant without him knowing about it?

Question

I want to have a baby, but my boyfriend says we should wait a little longer. The problem is I don’t want to wait. I have become so obsessed to the point that I don’t care if I have to trick him into getting me pregnant I just want to have my baby. I want to know if there is a way for him to get me pregnant without him actually knowing about it? We are not using any sort of contraceptive. Please don't judge me or answer my question with sarcasm.

We have been together for over seven years now and I know him well enough to know that he won't leave or not love our baby, because he has told me. And also we haven't used protection in all this time that wev'e been together. I thought I was pregnant once before and I was scared because at the time I wasn't ready. And he told me not to be scared because it was our baby his and mine together and that he was going to be there with me to help me and everything.

Answer 1

Well, I just wanted to say first off all. Make sure that you are ready for all aspects of the effect this could have. Not only on you but your relationship. Obviously you feel that you are ready to be a mommy :) And with no kind of protection your chances are good.But despite this fact your boyfriends doesn't want a baby. So are you ready or willing to possibly put your relationship in jeopardy. Also that you can have what you want? If he means anything to you please talk to him first or again and express, just how badly you want a baby. And find out why he wants to wait. If after all is said and done, and you are still on opposite teams. Then you need to ask yourself some questions a) do i want a baby so bad i will trick someone i say i care about? b) am i will to wait until his ready? c) Why am i in such a rush? d) Am i will to possibly lose my boyfriend, and be a single parent if he leaves e) I am i being selfish? f) Why is ok to have unprotected sex with me if he doesn't want a baby?
whatever answer you come up with good luck. Having a baby is so in-tailed. This is a decision that will effect your for life.
A child doesn't ask to be brought into the world. God Bless..:)

Answer 2

If you are this serious about having a baby...have one. If he doesn't want to be the father...get a sperm donor!!! If you are so serious about having a baby you are willing to get a sperm donor...talk to him about it. Tell him you have decided you are ready to have a baby with or without him.

KNOW THAT YOU RISK LOOSING HIM. If he really isn't ready he may decide you can have a baby without him. He may have been supportive when you thought you were pregnant before but that was also when he knew you didn't want to be pregnant. Now that your position has changed...his may have changed as well.

I would do a lot of soul searching if I were you. Exactly why is it so desperately important to you that you have a baby NOW? If your life needs fixing...a baby won't do it! Are you willing to loose him over this or are you trying to get him to take the next step of commitment? Seven years is a long time for a relationship without the promise of marriage. Can you support a baby on your own? Both emotionally and financially?

I try very hard not to judge others but I think tricking him would be a big mistake.

Answer 3

The main thing that i can think of is just try to figure out when you are ovulating. You can detect that through your cervical discharge during your cycle, also your Basil Body Temperature, and by where your cervix sits high or low. All of these things together can help you predict ovulation. But the simple thing that you can do it buy an ovulation kit it will tell you two days before you are supposed to ovulate so if you have sex in those three days you should get pregnant. The price range of those can be from $15 to $50 usually holding 7 test to im not sure with the higher priced ones. But thats the only way you can really do it without him knowing. Hope this helps

Answer 4

Not only because I am a man myself, I find the idea of being tricked that way quite unnice and don't think it might be the best solution. Whenever we have a decision to take, we shouldn't only think about how we can reach our goal, but consider the possible consequences for ourself and others.
If your friend would ever find out, your relationship will be very much in trouble. If he is the partner of your life, he will have a long time to find out and you will have to keep this secret from him forever.
Also from your side, I wonder how you will be able to look into his eyes after you will have suceeded in your wish.
On the other hand, I can understand your wish to have a child. It is a natural wish and of course, it is right to have this wish. You should really try to find out if he doesn't want to have a child right now, or if he just says so and in fact really doesn't want a child at all.
In case it is the latter, the situation might not improve if you tricked him anyway, because he might leave you and you will have to bring up the child on your own, which isn't a simple thing to do.
If he stays with you, it might still be difficult as he might not be happy in the situation, but stays because he thinks it is his duty. He might as well also get used to his new role and be very happy, but that is hard to tell in advance.
If he actually wants a child with you, but wants to wait a little longer, then give him a little bit of time and maybe you'll find a way to show him how serious your wish is. If he really loves you, he will figure that out by himself anyway.
After all, there will be three people involved: your friend, your future child and you yourself. You should think about what is the best for all three when taking the decision. Take your time and don't do it too hasty.
For whatever you decide, I hope that you will lead a happy life with all that you desire.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

Honey, if he isn't ready to give you a child, you need to wait. I mean, what good will come of it if you get pregnant by him and he decides he doesn't want to be there for you. It is wrong that you would do this to a man that rather wait until he is ready. I know how it feels to want a child. It is almost a inner fire that won't stop burning. At the moment I can't have kids, and I would do almost anything to be able to have a child, but I couldn't imagine doing what you want to do. There is a reason why he's holding off, wait it out.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

Tell him. Its his baby and his choice too. He may not be ready to be a father, emotionally or financially. With that in mind the baby and your friend may end up not having such a great life after all. She may have her baby but looses out on the man, the stability and the ability to do something with her life and that not fair on her baby. He may also not be able to get the life he had planned for himself due to supporting the baby financially. I know its not the same but how would you feel if you were planning on studying and carving out a brilliant life and found out you had to stop that and life in conditions you never wanted because you got tricked. He is trusting her to not get pregnant by taking the pill and she is breaking that trust. She is lying to him and do you think it is fair to bring a baby into a family where trust has already been broken in a such a way.

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Answer 9

Well this is a hairy situation, you say you want to trick him. Well I don't know if I should help but I'm sure your smart enough woman to think of a way. Other than that, I'm sorry honey I can't help you. I don't believe in what you are asking. But I hope someday you are blessed with a wonderful family. I wish you all the best, and say maybe now isn't the best time for this. Maybe fate isn't letting you get pregnant for a reason. Good luck, peace.

Answer 10

well, i think maybe u should stop and think about what u just said.. u said one time u thought u were pregnant and scared cuz it wasnt the right time.. well, if it was to him, would u have been happy? and now u say, u want to now but he dont feel its the right time..it would make u happy but not him. How long yall been together has nothing to do with having a baby..
I think you need to stop thinking about yourself, and think about others that are involved here. Each time, u were scared cuz it wasnt the right time and now u wanna trick him so u CAN get pregnant cuz u think its the right time, thats just thinking of no one but urself, and what u may think u want.
U can try to get pregnant, but its not even a guarantee u even will.. Grow up a little more and quit being so selfish and witchy.