ok my boyfriend says that he love me but when he get mad at me he hits me, and calls be bitches and he says that he hopes i die. but on the other hand when i need him his there and when i have a problem he trys his best to help me fixes it so what should i think, what should i do, should i just pull back little by little.... or should try and work it out and get to the problem that we are having please help me with this one!!!!!??????!!!!????
2007-04-30 19:38:10 · 7 answers · asked by valyncia b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Im sorry to say this, but no man should ever put his hands on any woman regardless to what he does when you need him, and you should already know that. you shouldnt accept that at all. if he loved you, you would never ask the question and he would never put his hands on you. I had an abusive husband and I let him get away with the same thing, and then one night it got to the point I packed my things anf left. I went through the same thing, and my husband told me the same things, and then when he wasnt mad he was the nicest guy. maybe you should move out for a little while, and tell him you'll come back if he agrees to some counciling. it should never be like that, and you should never have to ask yourself if he loves you. thats a question you should never have to ask if you truly know someone loves you. if he shows effort and changes after you leave than you know he does love you and he is willing to try anything to make it work, but dont let a man hit you out of anger.
2007-04-30 19:47:10 · answer #1 · answered by luvleebabygurl22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever tried to confront him about hitting you? i mean did you asked why he's like that?
try to think of it..you're still in a bf gf stage and he hits you already,..what more if you're already married, right? but maybe there's just something wrong with him thats why he's hitting you..maybe he experienced a traumatic event before..?
just ask him first and tell him not to do it again.. if he'll obey then its good but if he'll do it again then i say you'd better leave the relationship because you don't deserve to be hit and hurt by a guy..you'll see, there is someone out there that is just right for you,. who will adore and love you more than you do..
but first, give your boyfriend another chance..maybe his worth a second chance,,k?..
have a nice day girl..
2007-05-01 03:00:47 · answer #2 · answered by krizzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhh I know its hard and I aint gonna tell you to leave your man because I didn't he did the same thing and look we been together for 2 years. But It sometimes dont work for everyone. You need to have a talk with him girl and tell him he touches you one more time your gone, make sure you tell him you love him and wanna be with him still. But I think at this point pull back little by little.
2007-05-01 02:42:40 · answer #3 · answered by Giovanna R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to say this, but I think, if he hits you today he is more likely to hate you tomorrow! Of course I hope my prediction will never come true for you! good luck!
2007-05-01 03:32:08 · answer #4 · answered by spak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any man who hits a woman no matter what the reason or verbally abuses her is sick and/or mentally imbalanced. Leave him or more directly run for your life.
2007-05-01 02:45:39 · answer #5 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree completely with Monsieur Rcik. No one in his or her right mind would do such things out of love.
2007-05-01 02:48:06 · answer #6 · answered by Doty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIVE HIM HIS MARCHING ORDERS. IT IS EASY FOR ME TO SAY, BUT IN THE LONG RUN IT WILL BE THE BEST FOR BOTH OF YOU. GOOD LUCK.
2007-05-01 02:51:27 · answer #7 · answered by 10-T3 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋