I workout at the gym often and I notice this straight dude who always looks at me; I notice it from the corner of my eyes. When I look back at him, he turns away. Then I look in the mirrors and there he is again, looking at me.
He has a girlfriend. I've seen him with her, sharing bottled water, talking, touching, and everything.
What's the deal here?
I wouldn't care if I didn't find him attractive, but he's hot lol.
2007-04-30 15:22:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
either he is...
flirting...
he knows you from somewhere...
he is not straight and the "gf" is a fag hag!"
take ur pick...
ever showered at the same time with him?
heheheh
2007-04-30 20:53:56 · answer #1 · answered by snakey 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just because he is looking at you, doesn't mean he is flirting with you. Maybe he thinks you are weird-looking or something. It sounds like you're trying to pass it off as he is the gay/bi one, but it seems more like you are. No offense. That's not neccessarily a bad thing.
If you are, and you like this guy, I'd suggest,
A. Leave him alone...You'll just creep him out.
B. Try to be his friend. You'll learn a little more about him and maybe find out what's going on.
2007-04-30 15:27:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forbidden Fruit?
Bi-curiosity?
Are you out of the closet at the Gym?
Perhaps he's looking to share something his girlfriend is lacking... and I'm not talking about bottled water.
2007-04-30 15:26:40 · answer #3 · answered by NHBaritone 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The girlfriend is a cover so that he can make everyone believe he's straight. (no one really wants to be gay, do they? It just happens!) He has a gf cause society and family expect him to. He looks at you because he admires you. He wishes he could be as open and free as you are. He wants you, you know he does!
Heck, I want you and we have never even met! You're just irresistible! LOL!
ATTN: maxpain GET HELP!
2007-04-30 15:45:24 · answer #4 · answered by No Lies 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it could be for a number of reasons. i'm a striaght guy myself, but that doesnt mean that im not ganna look at other guys work out to get ideas for what i can do to improve my work out plan. also, like many guys, i wnt to see how much wieght someone else is using to see if i can get more. you can blame the testosterone for that. last, maybe he doesn't see gay guys that often, and is jus curious to see if they act different from staight guys (assuming that your openly gay). it may sound silly to you, but i hope this helps.
i'm also ganna have to agree with cool_is_flamingo. if your so curious just become his friend.
2007-04-30 16:12:41 · answer #5 · answered by strat player 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
haha, in my school gym a guy does the same thing to me (yeah, he's smokin'), and i don't know whether to think that he likes me or not either (i don't know if he is romantically involved with someone at the moment though). maybe your guy is still in the process of sexual self discovery?
2007-04-30 15:37:23 · answer #6 · answered by hey h 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
1.- He's joking around with you
2.- He's curious about wether or not he's gay and he sees you as the perfect candidate to find out
:3
2007-04-30 15:26:23 · answer #7 · answered by Strawberry 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol, having a girlfriend does NOT make you straight. Didn't you know that?
2007-04-30 15:26:54 · answer #8 · answered by lordwashu13 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's probably because you are hot stuff!
2007-04-30 16:41:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well you should be flatterd
i think so
<3
2007-05-01 04:16:47 · answer #10 · answered by Carrington 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋