My life really sucks right now. The one person that loves me the most on my dads side of the family (great grandma) GeeGee is dying. The last chance I got to see her I didn't go, and now she hasn't opened her eyes, she's dehydrated and hasn't eaten since Friday. Pluss there's all of the stresses of school (senior year almost over) and my boyfriend. I can't stop crying and I don't know what to do.
2007-04-30 13:14:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
awe, im sorry shes dying. but we all have to go at some time, i have lost quite a few of family members that i was really close to also. just think about them watching over you. and pick somthing like white butterflys or somthing as gifts .. random stuff you see everyday. pretty soon you wont be as sad - you will still miss them im sure. its better to miss them with a smile than with a frown. remember the conversations you had. go to the hospital and talk to her. you will feel better - dont wait too long or you will regret it. *EHUGS*
2007-04-30 13:20:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh I am so sorry you are really having a rough time of it right now. I am sure your Great Grandma understood and loves you very much so don't beat yourself up over this. The senior year can be stressful but just think in a couple months it will be over with and you can take a deep breath. As far as your boyfriend just think if he is a senior he is going through stress right now too and he is also probably upset because you are going through so much and there isn't anything he can do for you so he feels helpless. Reach out to your loved ones that is what they are there for. GOOD LUCK
2007-04-30 13:24:40 · answer #2 · answered by Jana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am truly sorry for all the stuff you're going through. Sometimes it all just seems to hit at once. Let GeeGee go, she'll be in a much happier place and she'll still be there with you. You can talk to her anytime you want. My Mom died when I was 8, now I'm way, way older than you but I still talk to her now and then. I wish there was some way I could magically take your hand and show you that everything is going to turn out alright in the end. For now, you'll just have to trust that it will.
2007-04-30 13:27:39 · answer #3 · answered by Captain Happy Pants 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you can, go sit with your great grandma. It doesn't matter if she is in a deep coma. It is well-documented that even in people who are non-responsive, their hearing/understanding is last to go. On some level she will know you are there and hear what you have to say to her. Please go tell her goodbye if you are able to. (I was a home Hospice nurse, and I promise this is the right thing to do if you can.)
Crying is good for you. And it sounds like an appropriate response to all you are going through. I would feel the worst about a person going through this who couldn't cry.
Don't forget to pray. That's the one thing I can say that always makes things better. Always.
2007-04-30 13:27:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know whether or not you are a religious person but I think you should pray. God will help you if you ask Him to. He can take all your burdens away if you let Him and I will keep you in my prayers as well. I hope things get better for you.
2007-04-30 13:21:21 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel Marie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I didn't get to see my Grandmother the last chance I got to see her before she slipped into a coma. I felt so bad about it, but I just tell myself that she knows that if I weren't so far away that I would have been there, and she knows that I love her. Cry as much as you like; you will feel a bit better afterwards.
2007-04-30 13:19:39 · answer #6 · answered by soulestada 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Get your boyfriend to comfort you. I'm sure your Grandma knew how much you loved her. If she doesn't wake up again just be happy that you got to know her for so long, not many people get to meet their great-grandparents.
2007-04-30 13:21:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say just let it alllllllll out, eventually you'll stop crying out of exhaustion after that try to do things that will keep your mind off it, go out with your friends, try to resume your normal activities. You should'nt be getting stressed over your boyfriend, if you are it might be time to end it.
2007-04-30 13:19:52 · answer #8 · answered by Ava Mars 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its ok. shes in a better place now. eventually ur gunna join her. i mean everyone has to go some time or the other. if u really loved her, you'd let her go instead of wanting her to stay. She'd be in so much misery. Everyone goes through this.
2007-04-30 13:25:19 · answer #9 · answered by The dude 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll pray for your Grandmother and your circumstances. Put your trust in God...He'll get u through it. Sending u a warm hug.
Blessings to u,
Daniel
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2007-04-30 13:21:09 · answer #10 · answered by Third Day 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋