I had unprotected sex 5 days ago with an ex.bf i am having a fling with(he has a gf) currently i am worried because i am not sure if i was ovulating my last period was april 11th ish.The fling was supposed to have been payback for my bf cheating on me because i wanted to wait to have sex with him(we never had sex now )and on my ex.bf's gf who i suspect he left me for my payback looks like it backfired. Do i continue my fling with my ex.bf since i dont think it can get any worse?
2007-04-30 12:55:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
All parties involved are in their first year of college.
2007-04-30 13:00:04 · update #1
Not a slut my ex.bf is the guy i have ever had sex with he was my first everything
2007-04-30 13:09:00 · update #2
What kind of a person are you?
2007-04-30 13:00:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Look, you're not due for a period for 2 more weeks. The only one this payback sex is hurting is you. I don't think anyone else is even aware of the situation. Stop screwing everyone. Finish up the school year and go home or get a job - or both. Spend the summer laying in the sun and having sex only with yourself. Less hassles.
2007-04-30 20:11:48 · answer #2 · answered by csbiup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, you are in college and acting like a 15 year old immature irresponsible little girl. You are just going to keep having sex since you made one stupid mistake. There is an idea, you have no clue if you are pregnant, but just going to assume it and keep being stupid. And what kind of person are you to sleep with a man who has a girlfiend. You probably are not pregnant, it can take months to get pregnant, and you most certainly don't need a child, you are still acting like a dumb one yourself. Go get on some birth control, quit sleeping with every man you can and leave other women's men alone.
2007-04-30 20:06:11 · answer #3 · answered by Barbara C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. continuing the fling will only increase your chances of falling pregnant you might not be so why make matters worse. also has anyone ever told you that two wrongs dont make a right if you want to teach your current boyfriend a lesson for cheating on you, dumping him is normally the best bet. if he honestly feels bad about cheating on you he'll try and get you back if not then the relationship wasnt worth the hassle it caused. trust is a hard thing to gain back once its lost and cheating on him just made you no better then he is.
2007-04-30 20:00:34 · answer #4 · answered by ~*~ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well if you are having sex only for revenge then no you shouldnt sex is something beautiful and should be shared between 2 people that have feelings for each other. and if that is not y u r having sex then yes it is ok to stll have sex if u r pregnant. but really if you are preg you need to take a step back and not worry about getting back at people you now have a baby to think about. i wish you the best of luck and i hope that things work out for u
2007-04-30 20:03:34 · answer #5 · answered by butterfli4201 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Looks like you're not learning anything in college, dear....
It's time for you to grow up and act like a woman and stop using sex as a revenge tool.
Don't you know you might get pregnant and bring an innocent baby into your crazy lifestyle??
2007-04-30 20:03:39 · answer #6 · answered by Veritas 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wow we dont care grow up hey you did it on purpose you wanna trap ya ex bak by falling pregnant with his baby.
oh and what dont tell me he is just as iresponsible and stickin it in ya without protection or are you lying to him sayin ya on birth control or somethin.
ps it takes more then one time to get pregnant usually but hey it always happens to the people who dont deserve to have babies/or shouldent have babies thats why there so much poverty and un wanted babies out there grow the f uk up befor you start havin sex ok.
2007-04-30 20:11:40 · answer #7 · answered by nomorebabieshaha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? Why would you have sex with somebody if you didnt even like him? Payback? How old r u?
2007-04-30 20:00:33 · answer #8 · answered by Jenny 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i should think you would grow up if you are having sex
act like an adult you are allowing him to take your body when he has a g/f and use it as he likes dont you have morals
he sleeps with her then you omg you need to go have some tests
2007-04-30 20:00:40 · answer #9 · answered by ~~ANGEL45SWEETY~~ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no. with that mind of yours, you shouldn't be having sex anyway...make sure you are(n't) pregnant, then learn some control! don't bring a poor baby into this world just because you are irresponsible. GOD!
2007-04-30 19:59:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
why don't you stop with the 'fling' until you find out for sure if your pregnant or not
2007-04-30 20:11:50 · answer #11 · answered by Jo A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋