why do people say things that r so meen?

Question

why do people say things like yur ugly or stupid im a punk and many people say those things and they're all poular and have 50billion x-boyfriends. they say I'LL NEVER HAVE A BOYFRIEND. IS IT TRUE?

For all you retards that answered this with the least amount of common sense or logic.... this message was written by an 11 year old! She has no idea what spell check is! I am her mother and just checked her e-mail like I do every few days and found that she did this.

I WOULD like to thank the people who replied with truthful and honest answers. Sometimes kids don't believe the answers their parents give them, which she didn't and apparently felt by asking other people it would make her feel better. Thank you for your thoughtful comments.

Answer 1

You must realize that most of the time people will put others down to make themselves feel better. Far too often they lack something themselves and single out others that have what they don't. Being a punk, means you have the guts to be who you are. They are too busy being what they think everyone else wants them to be. Who wouldn't envy that ability. I am someone who I guess one would call punk and I love my self, I feel very confident in everything in my life and I have a great man as well.

So don't waste time worrying about what they say. As long as you believe you are smart and pretty that's all you need... I didn't look when I found my guy, he found me.... So have no fear you will find a boyfriend that is good for you and most likely not have to go through 50 billion to find him.

Answer 2

People say mean things to you because largely, well how can put this.......
PEOPLE SUCK!

There's a lot of losers out there, and losers have to make themselves feel good about their failed and useless lives by making someone else miserable. I mean seriously, have you ever noticed how many really stupid assholes there are on this planet right now!? It's mind boggling! PT Barnum once said "There's a sucker born every minute", well I bet there's about six assholes born every second!
Inference to your question though, don't worry about it. If these girls got lots of X-boyfriends it probably just means there really easy. Not that I'm against that by any means, I love a slutty girl as much as the next guy, but honestly. Do you seriously think these girls have crystal balls and can see into your future? They ain't got ****. I'll bet you sooner or later you'll find a decent guy who'll love you for who you are, and then you'll be laughing at them when they've got 4 kids by 4 different guys or freakin herpes or some other nasty creepy crawly.
It'll be OK you'll see. Until then just know that they're morons and tell em to eat a Dick!

Answer 3

People say such mean things because they are too shallow to think about good things so they decide to try to make other people sad to make them feel better. Inside it really just makes them feel worse. Saying mean things are cruel and kids these days are like that. If anyone says anything to you or your friends or even you see someone having something said to them or about them, stick up for that person or yourself! People don't deserve that. It is NOT true that you will never have a boyfriend. Those people think they are so great. Ignore them because they are really rude! You will find someone.

Answer 4

No, they just like to be in control and feel better about themselves (for whatever reason) for putting people down. Since you're a punk they might assume you're the girl who will be the best friend of guys, but will never have a bf. Not true! If they guys @ ur school haven't realized it yet, they soon will that the easygoing fun girls are the ones they want to be with, not the mean ditzy ones who put others down!

Answer 5

if u continue having low confidence..and believing these people then yes..it may come true...don't listen to them...most people who say mean things are insecure and feel that they have a superiority over you because you present yourself inferior to them. as the remarkable Eleanor Roosevelt once said..."no one can make you feel inferior without your consent."

Just cuz they're "popular and have 50 billion x-boyfriends" doesn't make them the best ppl. i rather be the geek who knows i can do something and find someone who respects who i am..which i did =]...and show off to those popular people who's better when i earn my riches!! lol...besides..having 50billion x-boyfriends only means a higher odds at getting STDs.

Answer 6

you will get a boyfriend when the time is right. and the people that are being rude are like that that is the world everybody is mean these days i am sorry if your feelings got hurt or anything but you seem like a nice friendly girl and i no where you are coming from. you are loved by jesus the son of God just keep that in mind. if you have any propblems at school then contact me at [e-mail] i will be your friend

Answer 7

No, it is not true. You will have a boyfriend and probably more suitors than you can handle! And yes, people are mean. I don't know why, but they are and family members are no exception, at least for me. Don't give those idiots another thought. Just be yourself and pray. Prayer helps me a lot. Sometimes I think God and Jesus are my only friends/family. They help and comfort me more than anybody here on earth. Hang in there, don't worry, have faith! **** luck and God Bless!

Answer 8

People like that like to make fun of others to make themselves feel better... be above that and ignore them. You will find a boyfriend one day, just take it easy, relax, be yourself, and you will see that what people like that end up like later on down the road...lonely, depressed, and without friends because no one likes them.

Answer 9

They have no self esteem and in order to put someone beneath them, they must insult and degrade them. Once the pressures of school yard bullies are gone, boys start to come around.

Answer 10

Of course it's true. Your inability to use spell check shows that you probably are of less-than-average intelligence. The dudes I know all want to date smart chicks.