Is there a reason for everything happening?

Question

I feel very sad when I think of certain events in my life. I wonder if there is a reason for everything happening in life.

I hate to see others go through pain of any type especially emotional. I also hate to feel sad and don't know how to justify it.

Maybe it makes us stronger.......and able to weather storms later on in life.

Answer 1

i think its normal. i mean who wants to be sad? nobody. and dont live on your past. you can never change the past. whatever happened to your past, learn from it. and think about the future, you can always change th future. its your choice. and it sucks seeing people being sad, cos you knew how they feel. but thats life.

Answer 2

hi. it does make you stronger. and oddly, everything fits into place as the years go by. there are loads of times when things will be ackward or very uncomfortable, but it's cool how later, when we look back, it seems like a totally different experience. enjoy the ride. life is fasinating and wonderous...you'll see. you can make things easier on yourself...keep lots of people close to you and be kind to each other. honesty is always the best policy and a good solid relationship won't survive without it. there...how's that? good luck, hon.

Answer 3

I think everything happens for a reason and there is a reason 4 everything maybe it is a choice u made maybe it is for the better for instence u break up w/ someone and u think u really love them but it is for the better because they are really not someone u want to be w/ and mayhave been stuck w/ them the rest of ur life maybe its an experiance but whatever it is stick to ur guns and don't let fear take over

Answer 4

It is sad to weather bad things.

We have all done that, and if not, then we will.

We weather these things because they help us grow as ppl, and help others.

I t don't always work, but there are no guarantees in life.

At age 37, I still cry when I see ppl hurt.

And I spent 9 years as a copper.

The best thing you can do is live life like you care.

As I'm sure you do.

Answer 5

Sweetheart, I personally think that it is awesome that you think as you do. Yes, I believe strongly that everything happens for a reason, and soon enough everything will fall in to its place. I am a lot like you in the sense that I hate seeing others in pain.....I want nothing more than to take it all away. You have a big heart.......dont lose that. =)

Answer 6

Unfortunately we sometimes bring things on ourselves. Then there are those times when we're seemingly "unlucky." The Bible even states that good and bad things happen to both the just and the wicked. That's just a part of life in a fallen world. My hope? My hope is that God is who he says he is, and with that hope, he'll create yet another world, but this time man won't have a chance to ruin it! ( ^ _ ^ )

Answer 7

unfortunately i think pain is necessary to grow. perhaps we are evolving to become more 'god-like'. or perhaps humanities aim is to evolve towards that end. emotional pain is like physical pain, its there to teach us what to do and what not to do. some peoples karma or area in need of expansion, may mean they have to go through more pain than others. perhaps it works on a wider scale too, where some peoples pain teaches others what they need to learn. it seems unfair when looked at an individual level, but when you look at the bigger picture, and the earth community, it makes more sense.

Answer 8

on the large scale yes everything that has happened was supposed to happen and was definitely going to happen no matter what. whether there is a given reason why certain things happen, i am not quite sure, but whether there is a reason why it happens or not, it was going to happen.

Answer 9

everything happens for a reason and it just takes time to look over and become happy again

Answer 10

It's called the cycle of life.