Do you think single women who are chaste and 'pure' are better than single women who sleep around?

Question

By 'pure' I mean women who never have slept with a man before in an intimate way (if you know what i mean). In my eyes, women who keep themselves pure til marriage are worth more than all the gold and precious jewels on the planet. After she is married, I believe she and her husband should have many intimate relations, but before that I think it is important for women to be protected from this. That way, when she wears white on her wedding day, it will truly mean something and she will be pleased to know that she has a wonderful gift she can give her husband. Not only that but, God willing, when she has children she will be able to tell them of her virtue. In my opinion, one of the best ways for a man to respect a woman is to respect her body. Would you agree with me?

Answer 1

FACT: 97% of people (men & women) have sex before marriage - even in the "olden days". People just didn't talk about it. My granparents and great grandparents all said the same thing: The things that are happening now were happening back then - it's just that no one talked about it openly. Unless you yourself are a virgin, you have no right to demand virginity out of a woman. As for sleeping around, men are certainly more slutty than any woman I've ever known as men are not selective at all. Women are.

I'll leave you with this last tidbit. I know several women who were virgins when they married. ALL THEY EVER THOUGHT ABOUT is what it would be like to be with someone else and every single one of them were later involved in an affair. One of them was a pastors wife. Pretty sad. I think you get quite a bit more loyalty out of someone that has "been there, done that".

You must be a morman.

Answer 2

It would be great if all men believed that it was important to respect a woman and her body, but so many don't, that it becomes significantly harder for women to remain pure until their wedding day. One of the other answers pointed out that there is a point in between being completely pure and totally sleeping around. I tend to think along these lines. As long as a woman has been very selective in her choice of partners, then there is not much room to judge...

Answer 3

You know what, I don't think "pure" women are better than the other women in the world but I do agree with you about wearing white on the wedding day and teaching your children about such virtues. Now a days I think that would be a huge accomplishment for any woman..to stay a virgin until marriage.

Answer 4

I was raised in a strict, Christian household and given a "promise ring" from my step dad, at the age of 13. A promise ring is a ring that promises you'll be pure and chaste until marriage. The agreement went that if I ever broke the promise I had to give it back to him no questions asked. I was pure until I married at 19....and divorced three years later.

I think it's very important for young women and men to be pure for their wedding night. Not only because it's safer in terms of STDs, it's also a commandment by God. That's all easier said than done though especially after you're out on your own and officially an adult.

Answer 5

In all honesty, I am one of the "pure" and chaste ones. I did have one experience when I was 17 when a guy got me drunk and took advantage of the situation, but I honestly can't stand it when guys try to pressure me to sleep with them. It pushes me away. I am waiting until I find the guy I connect with on an emotional basis and one who I can't live with out. I do believe in inseperable love. It has to be out there somewhere. But I think it'll be much sweeter when the guy actually cares for me the way I do for him.

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Answer 6

Awesome! I agree with you 100%...

Sex is a gift you give to only one person...

Although there aren't very many, guys like you make me feel very special so I want to say thanks.


When I wear white on my wedding day, it will truly mean something...

Answer 7

I agree. I far from slept around but I wish I had waited for my husband but I would have missed out on a great son that I adore.

Answer 8

I am going to answer your question only and leave the rest. Yes it is very important for them both to respect each others bodies. A woman should respect the man as he should respect her.

Answer 9

A lot of the women who responded are misunderstanding the point (although Sandstorm, I know you like posting chauvinistic stuff, so I'm not endorsing everything you say). Virgin men like me are attracted to virgin women because we're giving them our gift of virginity and it's only fair that we get the same back. Equality - isn't that what it's all about? We're inexperienced and we want you to be inexperienced too.

Of course it's hypocritical when a playa wants a 'chaste' girl but ladies, please differentiate between the guys who want to have their cake and eat it too, and genuinely inexperienced guys protecting themselves.

Answer 10

He may be the guy who never "gets any" but one thing he WON'T be getting is a social disease. I totally agree with him especially if he plans to keep himself pure also and gives his future wife the same gift that he wants her to give him. God bless you, my friend.