I kind of lost all the charm in my life, even my dreams do not seem attractive to me. Is their a way I can get rid of it?
2007-04-30 11:15:09 · 9 answers · asked by Root Xerox 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Do something for someone else.
2007-04-30 11:19:16 · answer #1 · answered by mfg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am i the same boat here.
Keep in mind that life goes away in a snap.
It depends on each person.
People are looking to get what they want instead of what they need.
some people are happy as long as there is food on the table.
Some people are happy as long as they have a 24 pack every weekend.
As long as you do and live the way you want. Do not let people define your succes, or criticize you.
It is your life.....
2007-04-30 11:26:45 · answer #2 · answered by gigaferz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to let happiness find you. Start off with doing things you enjoy. Only way to find happiness is through the zen method. Stop looking for it.
2007-04-30 11:22:54 · answer #3 · answered by Wandering Mind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find yourself a good therapist. Maybe you are depressed and need some help sorting out a few issues that are blocking your ability to be happy.
2007-04-30 11:27:09 · answer #4 · answered by Danielmcfate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are things within your power. And there are things beyond your power. Within our power are: opinion, aim, desire, aversion, and in one word: whatever affairs are our own.
Things that are within our power are by nature free, unrestricted, unhindered; but those beyond our power are weak, dependent, restricted, and alien. Remember then, that if you attribute freedom(the source of happiness)to things by nature dependent and take what belongs to others for your own, you will find fault with both gods and men. But if you take for your own only that which is yourown and view what belongs to others just as it really is, then no one will ever compel you, no one will restrict you; and you will find fault with no noe, you will accuse no one, and you will do nothing aginst your will; no one will hurt you, you will not have an enemy, nor will you suffer any harm.
Word to the wise
2007-04-30 11:25:39 · answer #5 · answered by Ke Xu Long 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell yourself not to worry and to be grateful for what you have. It's a small step that takes you toward being happy.
2007-04-30 11:22:13 · answer #6 · answered by diamond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest check out others reality. Maybe you might appreciate your own a little more. Get up and do something about it.
2007-05-04 11:03:54 · answer #7 · answered by Ell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act "as if" you are happy. Tell yourself "I am the happiest guy in the world" long enough and you become "the happiest guy in the world". (I can see the smile breaking out on your face already).
2007-04-30 11:33:49 · answer #8 · answered by Max 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop looking and live, it will soon find you.
2007-04-30 11:19:57 · answer #9 · answered by Crazy Diamond 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋