I just broke up with my bf yesterday one of the reasons we broke up was because of this other guy. I did stuff with him physically because I felt as if me & my boyfriend were not as close. Even though we are broken up we still sort of act like we are together. Today this other kid drove me home as usual. He came into my house and we went to my room. I didn't want to do anything physical with him. He kept wanting me to have sex with him but I didn't want to. He kept begging but I still said no. He kept telling me to come on them he grabbed my arms and tried put his hands down my pants. I hit him and shoved his arms away but then he took his thing and tried to have sex with me. I told him to stop & I pushed him off. It was really scary and uncomfortable but he acted like everything was normal. I want to tell my ex-boyfriend bc we are still really close since we are trying to work things out Im scared he will be mad bc he came over in the 1st place. I feel so used and sad. What do I do?
2007-04-30 09:35:04 · 7 answers · asked by Lindsey G 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Call the cops and report him!
In the future, don't have people over without anyone else around... and definitely not in your room!
If anyone ever grabs you again (or anything else), immediately KICK him as hard as you can in the GROIN!!! And then run away. Do not worry about hurting him - that is what he is trying to do to you! The priority is to hurt him and get away!
2007-04-30 09:44:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should call the police. Though no actual rape occured, there probably still something that they can do. Beyond that, discontinue communication with that kid, cuz he's only gonna be more trouble. As far as your ex is concerned, don't get him involved. He might lose it and kill that boy, or he might go after that boy and get himself killed, I'm sure you don't want either on you conscience. Also, stop having sex with random boys. You obviously didn't knwo much about him and because of that you could have been raped. Just let the police and your family know what happened and be vigilent. You may have put yourself in a bad position, but you didn't deserve to be attacked that way.
2007-04-30 17:08:04 · answer #2 · answered by klg2k2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the police and tell them about it cause its illegal, its just like rape dont let him get away with it cause he might do it again. Also yeah if u feel comfortable talk to ur ex about it cause he will help you get through it
=P good luck
2007-04-30 17:30:35 · answer #3 · answered by tkay. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg that is really sad. i would tell your ex bf...if he still loves you--like im guessing he does--he won't be mad about the other guy.....or you should tell someone else.
2007-04-30 16:40:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call 911 and tell your ex.
2007-04-30 16:42:10 · answer #5 · answered by Mami 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
CALL THE POLICE AND REPORT THAT KID FOR ATTEMPTED RAPE!!!!! HE COMMITTED A CRIME AGAINST YOU. DON'T LET HIM GET AWAY WITH IT!
2007-04-30 16:40:21 · answer #6 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell your dad.
2007-04-30 16:39:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋