I want to become a teen mother soon is that a good idea?

Answer 1

No it is not a good idea.

Answer 2

You say you want to become a teen mother, as opposed to you" are "going to be a teen mother soon ? If you just want to be, and you are not yet "in the motherly way", then please don't be, not yet. You are too young to give up the best years of your life looking after a baby. It may sound glorious, but if you have never seen the movie " Three Men & A Baby", then watch it. It took three men to tend one baby. They really do require all your time. I really think you should wait. I hate to think of a pretty young lady giving herself to some guy, getting saddled with a baby, and then maybe the father goes down the road, never to be seen again ! I can just tell you are as pretty as a picture, so, for heaven's sake, enjoy these good years, and do the mother thing later.That's my best, heart-felt advice. Take care & think this through !

Answer 3

That's because you don't realize what a mother is. Come to my house and stay for a minute. I have a one year old and a two year old. I haven't slept all night since the first one was born. If one kid sleeps all night the other wakes up because of a bad dream vise versa. You should enjoy being a teenager. No worries. You have to grow up so fast when you become a mom. You won't believe to just go and hang out with your friends or shopping. I would think long and hard because being a mom may be rewarding it is the hardest job you will ever have to do and believe me it doesn't come with a "how to" handbook. Just finish school and wait a couple years. "good things come to those who wait"

Answer 4

hunney let me tell you something.your young yet and you have a whole life ahead of you.dont you have dreams of college.with a baby,its hard.your life changeses the monet u find out ur pregnant.no more hanging out with friends ,cause you have to stay home with a sick baby or that you have noone that wants to babysit for you.no more parties,and the cost my dear its very exspenive.take it from me.i had a baby when i was 16.it wasnt that i wanted one then .it just happend and trough rape to boot.i kept the baby.my life wasnt the same.i never was able to go out .and not everyone of my friends wanted a baby taging along all the time.and all the friends i lost case i had a baby before marriage.if ur married thats great.but i would still wait and live ur teennage years for a while and enjoy the teen age years before thinking of a baby.please think on it.and think on it real good and hard.think about how ur gonna pay for the baby.diapers med,formula incase breat feeding doesnt work,babysitters,etc.ur eggs arnt gonna go anywere.i would really relally wait.atleast untill u 21 or older.cause i missed my teenage years.and i miss my friends.i was a baby having a baby.instead of being a teenager and giving my parents a heart attack.lol.but anyways.think about it.having a baby changeses everything not only for you.but for that baby that grows inside of you for 9 long months.its not easy having a baby young.exspecially when u think ull have someone there for you and at the end when u have the baby your all alone.and its not fair to the baby.or to you.so hunney i would think on it.and good luck....

Answer 5

well depending on how old you are like any age under 18 i would no it's not a good idea. you should enjoy your teens years have fun because when you have a baby your fun time with friends is over and you want to be sure your really ready for that huge responsibility. having a baby takes alot of time and patience. if your a teen girl who likes to go out with friends and have fun i think a baby right now would cramp your syle. are you finacially ready to support a baby right now. do you have a good job are you out of school. do you have a nice place to live to care for your baby. if your answer is no, then your not even close to being ready to be a mother. you need to think it over. you have all the time in the world to be a mother so you dont rush it ok.

Answer 6

hey sweetie,i found out i was pregnant 24 weeks ago, i was 19 years old, i am still coming to terms with it, i will be honest, i have no idea how i am going to cope, the only thing i can say is please make sure u have a partner who loves and supports u, or a tight family unit. because once its inside u, growing. u cant change your mind. u are going to have a little person depending on you 24/7 whether u like it or not. i would say there is no right time to have a baby,and there is no ideal age to be a good mother. but whatever your decision, a child is for life :-) hope this helpsxx all the best xx

Answer 7

Don't. A baby is way more responsibility than you realise. You have it for your entire life. You will have to be pregnant, you will be very poor and have no chance of an education. Do you really want to have your kids going off to college when you're in your late 20s knowing that they will make something of their lives and that you never had taht opportunity. Try looking after a friends baby for a week and you'll see how hard it is.

You will most likely not have the resources to deal with a new baby so don't selfishly have one if you can't provide for he/she. You may want something to love but this is the wrong solution.

Answer 8

You sound like a person who loves kids. But relisticaly a child that had a teen as a mother is going to have a hard life. I mean you are still trying to figure some things out in your own life. How are you going to be responsible for another one?

Answer 9

What would make you think that it is a good idea? You need to get through school, and your own childhood first. Having a baby isn't all fun and games. You won't be able to do all the things you are able to do now, and babies are expensive. Just grow up first, and then worry about becoming a mother.

Answer 10

You know what you need? One or two days with an infant child so you can see the CONSTANT attention that they need. After two days of NO sleep because they need to be fed every two hours, you might reconsider.

And if you get pregnant, you better hope the, uh, father helps you out with:

Feedings
Diaper changing
Rocking the kid to sleep

and hope he helps you pay for...

Formula ($100 to $120 a month)
Diapers and eventually pullups ($40 a month)
Clothes
Toys
Trips to the doctor
Daycare - you're going to love this one - $400 to $800 a month - that is unless a family member picks up the slack.

If he doesn't help out with the $$$ end of it then taxpayers like myself will probably end up paying for it.

Answer 11

No way! I waited until I was 29 and it is still a challenge after you have a career and a good income. I love my daughter but dealing with an infant can be a lot to handle for someone who is not emotionally mature and prepared. Also, you will have a big shock when you realize just how much socializing you will be giving up when you are taking care of the baby. Please heed these cautions. Have fun while you are young and wait, dear.