If you were to go to your highschool reunion and some of the people took interest in you that didn't take interest in you back in high school would you forget about the past and give it a go. or tell them to forget about it.
2007-04-30 06:35:27 · 10 answers · asked by chedderapples 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you were totally different people in high school, you were literally children. if you have grown up and they have too. then give it a go. its not like he can announce he banged you to the whole school or anything. you dont go there anymore. plus it might be a good time to catch up on old times. and maybe have a little fun pointing out how much things have changed.
2007-04-30 06:39:40 · answer #1 · answered by Bobby L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd move on from the past. People can be very cruel in high school. I even noticed just going to college was a huge difference. I'm assuming it is at least a 5 year reunion, which would have given a lot of people time to grow up. Mention it if they really affected you, but otherwise I'd just forgive and forget.
2007-04-30 06:39:25 · answer #2 · answered by lovebug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that! Leave the past behind so that you don't make your life miserable.
My 10 year high school reunion was 7 years ago, and I was one of the girls everyone labeled as unattractive, loco, and Lord knows what else. Anyway, those same ones, especially the guys, treated me better than they ever treated me when we were in high school. They even told me that I looked like I could be in a magazine (say what?)!
In high school, you were a child, but now, you're an adult. Go on, be nice, let the by gones be, and enjoy your reunion!
2007-04-30 06:46:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I told them to forget about it, because I was already married. That was at my 10 year reunion, I didn't bother with my 20 year reunion, and probably won't with any of the others either.
2007-04-30 06:39:13 · answer #4 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, people change as they grow older, you might have been a bean pole in HS ,then blossumed later, it is hard to forget stuff that hurt in our youth but just think of future happiness you could be missing out on by remembering the past
2007-04-30 06:41:05 · answer #5 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd give them the benefit of the doubt, because people do grow up and improve, but I'd be a little cautious... if they were a jerk back then they might still have jerkiness in their nature now.
2007-04-30 06:39:11 · answer #6 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's widely regarded that most of your opinions in high school don't reflect who you are as an adult, since during that time people are basically just naive kids.
Unless they did something offensive to you, I'd say let it be water under the bridge.
2007-04-30 06:42:31 · answer #7 · answered by cardinal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not in high school anymore. Act like an adult. Treat them like you would anyone else.
2007-04-30 06:39:16 · answer #8 · answered by ropman1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a try, people grow up and change. If not then you can say screw it, at least you tried.
2007-04-30 06:39:28 · answer #9 · answered by CC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be mature and accept them for who they are now. we all had little groups of friends we hung with back then but it is time for new friends
2007-04-30 06:39:33 · answer #10 · answered by Jim G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋