my bf wants to hav sex wid me..wat should i do?????
2007-04-30 03:10:05 · 23 answers · asked by sania 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Get rid of him. Yes, it's wrong and will mess up your entire life aside from "reproductive health."
A man wanting sex before marriage is not worth going out with.
2007-04-30 03:13:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't say you can't go to Heaven if you have pre- marital sex. It just a sin. Everybody sins and they may not do that sin but God does forgive us our sins if we confess them and pray for His mercy and forgiveness. It's best to wait until marriage also with the chances of pregnancy and all the diseases that are out there. It's your body and it's up to you when you have sex just make sure you wait as long as you can.
2016-05-17 08:25:37 · answer #2 · answered by freeda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In India girls normlly get marry after 20 so it's not easy to keep far u r self from sexual life so we have to get pre-marital sex.
If u don't have sex with some one before marry it's sour that u have self sex. Pre marital sex with some one is batter than self sex. Becz self sex is harm-full for health also.
If u have sex u will be happy so get sex and be a happy.
Have a good sexy life.
2007-05-01 21:04:03 · answer #3 · answered by pooja j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's certainly NOT harmful for reproductive health. A piece of paper doesn't influence your health -- either way, it's basically sex. Now, as for wrong, it's more of a matter of principle. If you feel like you should do it and you'd enjoy it, go for it (unless you're 14 or something... in that case, you should wait a bit longer). If you're simply not ready for it, tell your boyfriend.
2007-04-30 03:14:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deciding to have sex for the first time is a big step in your life. There can be only one "first time" for everyone. This really needs to be YOUR choice. Don't let your boyfriend put pressure on you. If you don't feel ready to do this yet, then don't do it! And yes, it can harm your health, because if you are not careful, you can either get pregnant or contract STDs, including things that can kill you (like AIDS).
2007-04-30 03:16:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on whether you want it or not. But i would say, its worth waiting for till your marriage. Virginity and purity is a rare thing in todays world. What would be a more precious gift to your husband than your virginity? So its entirely upto you. Anyway it doesnt cause any harm to reproductive health.
2007-04-30 03:44:45 · answer #6 · answered by Lord Of Lust 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well positively ...just like a sister i am advising u that boys r far clever than girls..sometimes we think that our bf is very sincere and caring and we do trust on them but sometimes reality is opposite to it....if he want to make such a realtionship with u make sure that it will not harm u...if he wud be dam serious with u and will be sincere then he will never ever force u to do that...it is true that humanbeings have such feelings and they want to apply them in their life as soon as possible but everything had its disadvantage as well....so my suggestion is that wait untill u get maaried him ...but in case u wud'nt marry him u will be perfect and virgin wife for ur husband...so dont be dishonest and try ur level best to marry him first and then do sex....afterall its ur life u can take better decesion than anyone else....but dear sister think again ....think abt ur family,ur future and my advise.....ask ur self and u will find the answer..take care.....
2007-05-04 01:19:08 · answer #7 · answered by stranger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Premarital sex isn't harmful to reproductive health; but unprotected sex can be.
Go with your gut. If you're not ready you're not ready. Don't be pressured into something you don't want to do.
Whether it's wrong or not is an answer only you can give yourself (due to your upbringing and beliefs).
2007-04-30 03:13:53 · answer #8 · answered by Tab 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to have sex with him then don't, but biologically its no different than post-marital sex. Your main concerns are pregnancy and STDs, so use a condom and preferably some additional birth control, like the pill, if you do.
2007-04-30 04:33:15 · answer #9 · answered by geramd4040 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problems with premarital sex are the following:
1.- You risk yourself to get STDs (if he had one and did not know)
2.- You risk yourself to a pregnancy without an established home for the future baby. If you end by accepting to have sex,
3.- To have a sexual intercourse with someone is a great sample of trust. You have to trust a lot your boyfriend to have sex with him.
2007-04-30 03:59:58 · answer #10 · answered by mbestevez 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋