It's the "million dollar question" for me everyday and his answer is: Whatever....Then, I cook "whatever" and he has always something he "preferred" more...(I'm no Martha Stewart, but am pretty good, so you know..)
2007-04-30 02:29:10 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Wow, I can see I really "hit the spot" with this question! LOL!! I can see I'm not alone!!
2007-04-30 02:41:31 · update #1
I give him a choice of three things, if he doesn't answer me in 5 minutes, I choose what we'll have for dinner!
2007-04-30 02:34:00 · answer #1 · answered by YAWN 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask him anymore what he wants.
If you are the one who does the cooking then just plan your meals and make them.
When he makes a negative comment like that, I would say nothing and nicely hand him acouple of cookbooks and nicely tell him you are tired of his negative comment and tell him for him to pick out what meals he would like and to write it down and then tell him he can cook that meal or that the both of you can cook together.
I don't know what your work schedules are but I would have him get involved with the cooking. If time permits, ask him to help you make the salad or whatever while you make the main dish, etc.. if both of you share and cook together a few times a week, he should stop his "prefered" comment.
Communication is important if you speak your mind in a non-accusive way.
I don't know what to tell you.?Good luck.
2007-04-30 02:40:59 · answer #2 · answered by ACME 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I only ask when I'm headed out to the grocery store. I ask if there's anything different or special he feels like having this week, he usually gives me an idea or two. I usually start dinner 20 minutes before he gets home, so I can't ask him. Lucky for me he likes most things, and has never complained about dinner. Smart man, huh? LOL
2007-04-30 02:37:45 · answer #3 · answered by Kim 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband's response is very much the same as your husband's, "Whatever you feel like fixing." However, he wouldn't dare mention what he would have preferred if he wasn't direct in what he really wanted to eat if he wanted me to cook for him the next day! Training takes time ; ) ! Have a great day! Annie
2007-04-30 02:40:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not alone in this. In my case even the children tell me to cook 'anything' when asked and when I cook anything that is available in the fridge I meet silent glares. I get headaches just thinking about what to cook every single day. I think this is the most difficult question we ladies face in life again and again.
2007-04-30 02:37:31 · answer #5 · answered by P'quaint! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling. And if I don't cook anything and he comes and askes me "what's for dinner?" and I reply whatever you cook he walks away grumbling I'm not hungry and then comes back two hours later and askes me if I'm going to eat tonight. I just can't win.
2007-04-30 02:38:55 · answer #6 · answered by MJ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep, same man I'm with! I find it's not what I cook, it's how I present. If I give it with a kiss and some hugs he usually doesnt have the heart to say anything negative! (its a dirty little trick for a not-so-great cook).
2007-04-30 02:38:51 · answer #7 · answered by janjaley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he always answers i dont care i eat anything but thats a big fat lie and then when i cook hes always got a complaint he wanted something else or he wanted it a different way i swear sometimes im really lucky we live on a ground floor apartment because i think id kick him out a window
2007-04-30 02:33:02 · answer #8 · answered by *Suzy-Q* 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well im a guy and i really like this method you can lay on bed in a sexy way and when your bf husband comes in you say wanna ride babe?with a cute sexy face.or wear something that shows ur body and walk around him.he will become CRAZY or you can be normal and say why dont we try for baby,babe LOL
2016-05-17 08:15:59 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! My husband is the EXACT same way! I ask him, what do you want to eat, and he says anything. Then when I cook "anything" he's like, I wasn't in the mood for this. And then I tell him you told me anything, so I gave you anything!
Men! What to do with them? lol.
2007-04-30 02:34:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋