Personal examples please.
2007-04-30 00:58:15 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
no
2007-04-30 01:00:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Holding grudges is a waste of energy and is destructive to the person holding the grudge, usually the other one doesn't really care after a while and gets on with life. An example? My ex-husband was abusive to the point of breaking bones and I forgive him because I learned a lot about myself and compassion for people in that situation because of living through that. (yes, he got help and no, he doesn't beat his current wife)
2007-04-30 01:05:58 · answer #2 · answered by JenJen 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how heinous the event was.... about 7 years ago my 'best friend' and my boyfriend slept together. I still haven't forgiven either one.
I don't know if you could say I hold grudges forever, but I think women are more wary of trusting people that have done shady things before.
2007-04-30 01:03:23 · answer #3 · answered by ○•○•Cassie•○•○ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No examples, but probably. Women can be very vindictive. We may forgive, but we NEVER forget. Its like Wanda Sykes once said...we put a little icon in our head with your picture on it, then start downloading each and every thing that you do (or dont do) to that file. And when the time is right....wham! Open the file and look out! So, next time you think about getting over or playing games, know that theres an icon out there with your face on it.
2007-04-30 01:04:36 · answer #4 · answered by Debbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My perfect pal is a married bi sexual female. Her husband knew this in the previous he married her and instructed her that he did not take care of her being with different female on party. I have requested her why she might want to be with yet another female why married and she or he said she receives a feeling from being with a woman that a guy can't provide her. nicely now they have been married for 4 years and she or he has finished it on party yet to be truthful she would not do it anymore. She said it would not charm and she or he loves her husband and in simple terms ought to be with him now. i imagine in certain circumstances in simple terms understanding you are able to't have something makes you want it more advantageous after that you've it you spot that's no longer that giant of a deal... notwithstanding i be conscious of yet another couple the female is immediately and the guy is bi and he under no circumstances end seeing adult males. per chance you want counseling that would want to help you establish what you want. sturdy success
2016-11-23 16:49:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-04-30 01:17:10 · answer #6 · answered by Contented 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went out with this girl a few years ago, we split up and I got with her mate.
A few months ago I saw her again and we really hit it off and she brought up the fact that I got with her mate 1 time and thats why she wouldnt go back out with me!
So my answer is yes!
Dont cross a woman! behind every evil man is a woman telling him what to do!
2007-04-30 01:04:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what you did. but in most cases i dont think that women hold grudges forever.
2007-04-30 01:02:47 · answer #8 · answered by karm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No but i have a grudge against her the siily *****,my ex wife that is.
2007-04-30 01:01:52 · answer #9 · answered by TS100N 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes especially true when my ex tried to hurt our daughter (believe me he was delt with by me and CPS), with that like an elephant I will never forgive or forget! I have limits! he crossed them and now pay's the price for it........It is that simple. My kids deserve safty and I will see to it that they get it no matter what!
2007-04-30 01:07:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i never hold a grudge life is too short i might huff and puff for a week but then i think whats the point
2007-04-30 01:01:58 · answer #11 · answered by lou 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋