How can I talk my husband into me getting breast implants?
I have small B breasts and I am very petite but I really want implants. Not huge ones...just a little bigger than what i have. My husband is totally against this and says he loves me the way I am and he says he likes small breasts and not huge ones, wheather saggy or balloons. I have told him I would get something small and natural looking but he doesn't want me to. I am glad he likes me the way I am but "I" don't like the way I am. I look like a 15 year old and I am 27. I think having bigger boobs would make me more womenly and I have explained this to him but he says no. Anyone have had this problem and how did you get your husband to say ok? And nobody say "be happy with what you got" It is easy for people to say that yet millions of women are not happy with what they got but I am supposed to be.
2007-04-30 00:45:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
For J F......Money has nothing to do with it. We have plenty of money and that is not the issue. It is the fact that will not do something like this with his ok. I respect the fact that he loves me for me.
And to the rest of you that just want to assume all sorts of other things about me and my reasons. F**K You. You don't even no what you are talking about.
2007-05-01 11:08:36 · update #1
dont get the implants. my gf is same small b and sometimes a and i love it all my porn has smal breasted women and she wants them too and if she gets them it would make me less attracted to her also id feel she cared wat oder people thought of her breasts more than wat i thought, as if she wants other men to look at her. i love her as she is as i met her and i hope we will die together without any change.
2007-04-30 00:52:46 · answer #1 · answered by kev l 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to let your husband know, you want the implants for your reasons and not so you look better to other men. I mean I think he is worried about the outcome. Will other men notice and want you, will you want them? I would reassure him of your commitment to him and your children. And maybe he likes you the way you are. Be aware you may lose some of your sensitivity in the breasts after the surgery. If this is a big issue, don't do it. Also, don't go for Pam Anderson implants, just a size or two up from where you are. I think you should try and look as natural as possible. Check out the surgeon too. Shop around. Be picky. I wish you well, whatever you decide.
2016-05-17 07:47:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This problem has nothing whatsoever to do with your breast size and everything to do with the 12" between your ears.
Be happy with what you have, learn to love yourself as you are, etc, are the only valid answers to such questions. There is nothing by way of surgical mutilation that can ever help anyone to be happy with themselves, as that is something than can only come from within.
It's not that "millions of women are not happy with what they got", it's every person on this planet, female and male *yes, AND MALE). No one is perfectly happy with their bodies, NO ONE. But most people are happy enough to be sufficiently secure with themselves to be OK.
Having this surgical mutilation isn't going to help you in the least, because you'll only find something else about your body that "isn't perfect" in YOUR EYES ONLY, and you'll want further mutilation to fix every such non-existent problem.
Your husband is quite right. Why can't you hear him? Work on those 12" and you'll be much, much better off.
2007-04-30 01:08:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Breasts aren't necessarily going to make you more happier. Have you seen those women who get breast implants? They eventually go back and get bigger ones, then get bigger ones, etc. It becomes a freak show eventually. Trust me, as I guy, the size of your breasts matters little. If you want to do it for your self esteem go for it, just make sure you understand that you are doing it for you. Not society, not men, but for you. And once you get them, don't keep going back until you become a carnival display.
2007-04-30 00:52:27 · answer #4 · answered by descartesprotege 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Im a fan of plastic surgery but there are complications & it will cost you around 4k, but for what? You have no problem, if they were different sizes or you needed them for acting/striping I would say yes but for you no. I am 36DD and the looks & comments will get old after a while trust me. Go 2 Macys and get the add a cup silicons to put in your bra <3 Melanie myspace.com/thatspoiledbella
2007-04-30 00:50:35 · answer #5 · answered by Brunette Barbie 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I guess you're lookig for him to pay for these implants and that's why you need him to OK the idea?
If you want them that badly, pull the money together yourself and get it done. Implants are fake and don't feel the same as real breasts - your husband may not like the new you.
2007-04-30 01:15:37 · answer #6 · answered by J F 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If your husband likes the way you look why not just wear a good quality padded bra. No one else needs to know. Surgery is extreme. Especially one that is elective, and is still having high risk problems.
2007-04-30 00:52:43 · answer #7 · answered by Halerie H 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have B cups and love them. I call them my itty bitties. If your husband is against it, I'd abide by his wishes and just keep your breasts the way they are. You're obviously trying to impress other people for some reason.
2007-04-30 00:51:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You are fine as you are. Why go through needless pain and expense?
2007-04-30 01:00:42 · answer #9 · answered by Steamysteam 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Oh, just wear a padded bra.
2007-04-30 00:49:39 · answer #10 · answered by Alice K 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋