First impressions do to a degree matter, they inform you to whether you want to get to know someone or not, but are not always right.
In my experience there have been many people who on first impressions I did not like, and would not have chosen to know.
But because of circumstances, work/school I had no choice but to spend time with them and get to know them. I found many times that the person I thought I didn't like was actually very nice and I was almost ashamed of what my original thoughts about them were.
What I have learned is that first impressions are not always accurate, and judging people on that is doing my/ourselves a disservice b/c we can miss out on meeting someone who will be our truest friend or even a soul mate.
kby
2007-04-29 23:12:10
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answered by kennyboy 6
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Yes, as long as they still seem accurate.
If you never get to really know a person, all you have is a "first impression", no?
But if you take the time to learn what's in their hearts, you will come to understand the truth more fully.
By the way, God's the same way. We may have our ideas about religion, spirituality, hypocrites, and what not, but if we stay with God's Word, we can learn what's in God's heart...the truth. The Truth will make us free.
Send me an email if you want to know more. Your question was not about God, so I'll end here.
May God bless you.
2007-04-29 22:33:46
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes it does hey.. whether good or bad..
so just know that u never get a second chance to make a first impression.. so be on your best guard all the time..
cheers..
2007-04-29 22:57:15
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answered by Condie 5
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first impression is the best impression but it takes you last
2007-04-29 22:30:42
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answered by praveen k 1
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Yes, and if you make a bad one, it will take alot of good things to change that impression of yourself.
2007-04-29 22:36:24
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answered by Dave S 2
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For most people, at least unconsciously, the first 30 seconds defines the relationship, good, bad or ugly.
2007-04-29 22:31:29
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answered by John M 7
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of course no
sometimes when u see person and u think he/she has kind heart as first impression , u discover the fact after that , its not kind heart its evil heart
2007-04-30 01:49:08
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answered by micho 7
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It depends on if you are a memorable person, or if that person you are meeting really cares
2007-04-29 22:32:26
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answered by Anonymous
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No, but they count for a lot
2007-04-29 22:31:45
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answered by Anonymous
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Nope... once you get to know the person....it will change.
2007-04-29 22:37:25
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answered by joann_xvi 4
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