im a guy. 24yo. i hav always been attracted to the male physique rather than female. even when i jackoff my image is always a guy than a girl. but the strange thing is i prefer to talk to girls than guys. i find that i can communicate better with them somehow. its been like this since teenage years. i kept it secret fr any1 else bcos fear of being stigmaticed. Am i gay? i dun wan to be so. pls help. any1 hav similar experience?
2007-04-29 21:36:08 · 7 answers · asked by usingtea 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You already know the answer to this question and no one else can tell you are make that decision for you. What is so wrong if you are? Is it because it will make life harder? Yes, is does...but you know what, life is already hard. If you would be happy being with another man, then why not be happy? If you think a woman will make you happy, then by all means, be happy with a woman. I have a few homosexual friends and with gay men, alot of times it is easier to relate to women as friends than it is with men...for different reasons.
2007-04-29 21:45:44 · answer #1 · answered by Misty D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with being gay. It's okay. It's not a sin.
There's nothing wrong with being gay. It's okay. It's not a sin.
There's nothing wrong with being gay. It's okay. It's not a sin.
I repeated that, because I wish someone had said that to me over and over again when I was 24. It could have saved a lot of people a lot of heartache.
If you have access to any kind of counseling, use it. See a professional. It's a good idea. They will be able to direct you to helpful resources in your area.
We've ALL been through what you're going through. You don't have to be alone.
You're on the right track. You're seeking help. Keep looking in your area.
2007-04-29 22:20:45 · answer #2 · answered by inactive account 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who believes you will tell you what you already know. That you are gay. So stop the confusion thing. It's not the truth. What's bothering you is in the last part of your statement, fear of being stigmatized. You are worried that people will treat you poorly.
Yes. I have had a similar expereince.
2007-04-29 22:37:28 · answer #3 · answered by Christian Sinner 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of times gay guys conect with girls better then other guys. It's kinda like straight guys hanging out talking in the locker room or something. I'm gay and 90% of my friends are girls I guess because we have more in commen then me and guys.
2007-05-02 20:12:26 · answer #4 · answered by keith f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have all had that experience - Are you gay? from what you tell us so far I would say there is a big chance that you are. There are bound to be support groups in your area that can help you. Don't rush into anything make sure you are completly comfortable and above all be careful of who you trust in these early stages.
2007-04-29 21:46:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"There is no easy way for someone else to determine what your sexuality is, after all your sexuality is your own personal issue and it does not have to be communicated to all people. In understanding your sexual orientation you must be comfortable with the fact that you are unique and how you feel about yourself is going to be different than how I feel about myself. You have to decide what your sexuality is for yourself, through asking yourself questions and experimentation. But don't feel pressured to box yourself into a sexuality or a course of behavior that you do not feel comfortable with!"
2007-04-29 22:09:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i hate categorizing anyone... but based on what you are saying i would guess you probably are gay ... however, some ppl take a long time to be totally sure of there sexuality so i wouldnt put a label on myself at 24 y/o...
2007-04-29 22:07:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋