All a woman needs to do to attact a guy is be nice, honest and sweet. A guy has to have a good job, car, confidence, be tough and sensitive at the same time, be cute and rugged at the same time, and the list goes on...
2007-04-29 20:45:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Women also feel a lot of pressure to be a certain way in order to attract men. A lot of us think we have to be air-brushed stunning and emaciated. It isn't true at all but it's what the media tells us.
And what you think a man has to be to attract a woman is overblown with media hype as well. Let's go down the list from my own perspective:
a good job: to me, a man having a good job means he enjoys his work. I don't care about how much money he has so long as basic needs are met.
a car: the only reason this would ever be a consideration to me is because I live in the Midwest where everything is spread out over quite a wide area. Since I don' t currently drive, if he did not either we would be somewhat curtailed in our traveling. As for the make, model and expense of the car... I don't care as long as it gets us from point A to B.
confidence: I'd rather be with someone who needed their confidence boosted a little than someone who needed theirs taken down a bit to be bearable.
tough: overrated
sensitive: a certain level of sensitivity is required.
cute: nice touch.
rugged: I'm not into that Grisly Adam's thing.
Give us women a little credit for having some individuality in what we find attractive.
2007-04-30 02:30:54 · answer #1 · answered by K 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not true. When I met my husband, we had the same job (not a good one), he had no car, no license in fact and I still loved him. He has a good job now but still hasn't gotten around to getting his license back. And I love him more every day.
2007-04-30 03:49:21 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think you have it tough be a male? Try it one day as a female bud! Look at all the pressures you put on us!! ALL OF YOU MEN WANT THAT TROPHY WIFE HANGING OFF YOUR ARM!
2007-04-30 03:52:27 · answer #3 · answered by kitkat1640 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yeah, cruel isnt it? I wish good looking guys could get everything with their looks too!
2007-04-30 14:56:39 · answer #4 · answered by riodejaneirofun 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
oh please .....and women have to be young skinny sweet innocent and not have a past etc...."nice honest sweet" my azzzz u all want virgin mothers that look like supermodels ...its good thing im all the above teehee
2007-04-30 03:53:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ego and testosterone.
2007-04-30 03:48:10 · answer #6 · answered by Logan and Ella's Mommy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because you're trying to ATTRACT a mate, not repel her.
2007-04-30 03:51:54 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah R 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
media, salesman.
2007-04-30 03:49:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋