What's wrong with me?! I can't think of a "smooth" thing to say to save my soul. I end up talking about me or some equaly boring thing. Any clues to MAKE yourself remember to SHUT UP and listen or at least think of something interesting to say?
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2007-04-29 19:32:30 · 15 answers · asked by Fireman T 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
You do not have to try to impress anyone that would just tick some women off. Just ask them questions about their interests and what they would like to do with their lives and just listen to them. Men always make the mistake of trying to impress women if they are on a date with you it means you have crossed the first hurdle and you do not have to go out of your way to impress them, but be a genuine caring human being and I think you will be OK.
2007-05-01 03:00:29 · answer #1 · answered by Vivianna 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before I married, I always thought that the guy was super confident and I was a mere mortal. Now, I know that they must have been more nervous than me. I didn't know about this power women have over men. Just because we show a little cleavage, or paint our lips, you think you are not worthy, hence, you clamming up.
The secret is, if shes with you on the date, chances are she likes you anyway.
I would go with Lt Dans advice. Very clever man he is. Very true also.
2007-04-30 05:02:16 · answer #2 · answered by ♥jg spunk♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her about herself! A girl will go twenty minutes talking about her favorite subject~~herself. Just listen and make some listening type sounds like 'Uh-Huh" and "I agree" and she will think you are the best thing since sliced bread! And just a note to the wise: Don't try to play devils advocate with her nonsense babbling. Agree with whatever she says even if it is the stupidest thing you have ever heard! Later after you know her better will be time for disagreement.
2007-04-30 02:42:30 · answer #3 · answered by RedSonya 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I might suggest that you ask your date a lot of questions about themselves, and actually take an interest in what they say... try to just be yourself... and remember what Mia Wallace said to Vincent Vega: "You know you've found somebody special when you can just shut the fvck up and enjoy the silence together." ....or something like that.
2007-04-30 02:40:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get ya drink before and use mouthwash. Take a chill pill
2007-04-30 02:36:12 · answer #5 · answered by soggybottomscout_25 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all you have to do is go somewhere like dinner & a movie, things go smoothly most of the time. ask the person their interests
2007-04-30 02:41:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Partner I wish I knew... Try to think of some funny anecdotes that happened to you at the fire house.. I used to tell a few funny stories from work when things were slow...
Good luck.
2007-04-30 02:35:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Duct tape works wonders.
2007-04-30 02:46:46 · answer #8 · answered by Voodoid 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you clam up maybe you should date a fish, or get some help
2007-04-30 02:37:16 · answer #9 · answered by yeppers 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go with a natural conversation...
2007-04-30 02:35:23 · answer #10 · answered by Love always, Kortnei 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋