How can I make my girlfriend understand her friends, now mutual, are causing us a problem?

Question

My girl's friends have always been around, we all know each other from the moment we started college, we even got the same classes together, and therefore, we do assignments together, and we're problably going to graduate together.
They're great people and good students, but I think my girlfriend is having them in a higher rank above me, and a female friend ,especifically, has told me mean remarks such as her being priority before me when doing assignments with my girl, and so. I've stood in calm, and I've told my girl 'bout it, and it looks like she doesn't believe me too much. The point is I think I given too much in order to be with her, and I don't feel she has done the same sacrifice, though.
It all got worse when I told this same friend of us that I didn't like her telling me my girlfriend's tastes and likes, she told my girl about it and now my girl is pissed with me because she thinks I'm being selfish in lieu of exploiting the info to know her better. Is there any solution?

Answer 1

Hasn't you girlfriend heard of two's company and three's a crowd? If she does not understand that you two need time alone, then let her go. It will be hard especially when she sees you with someone attractive. She does not believe you will leave her because you have said so before. But this time stick to your resolutions. Wave goodbye and find a beautiful woman (in a few months) to date. She will be sorry she let you go because she will attract nothing but losers and jerks. Read the "laws of attraction" websites.

Answer 2

Yes, give your girlfriend a little space to breathe. You are acting so immature and selfish. You are part of her world, not her entire world. Keep smothering her, and she will eventually leave you.

Answer 3

Just move on, she obviously is not taking your relationship serious. Sorry to sound so harsh, but you guys are young and in college still so it sounds like she isn't too serious.