My husband is starting to get into the habit of coming home late from work! The last time (before tonight) he was 2 hr late! I questioned him and he said "Man I was filling gas!", Then i said for 2 hr, then i added next time im late i will say "i was filling gas"!
He said i was driving around for 2 hr to find gas!
No no dont think this he is not a cheater! He was with some friends partly and then he put some gas in his car! I always nagg him about he spends more time with his friends then with me! This is probably why he said "filling gas". Well 2night he came home late and went to sleep. I want do so reverse psychology on him! any suggestions?
P.S. he dosent love me at me!
2007-04-29 18:36:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
no . maybe it will be a qurrel start for your relationship.
no . please dont act the same as him. but show how much you love him, respect him, show yourself in away that he interest you and not the others. act what he likes.
keep your life. dont ask him more where were you ? why so late? remmeber , when men find their wifes weakness, they love to bother her. show him that you are strong. i mean apreciate him, and talk with him in subjects he likes, eat and drink together what he prefers. by this way you are so lovely to him, that he dont waste his time to fill gas!
2007-05-06 00:57:58 · answer #1 · answered by aida 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes if carried out and thought out properly. Not all the time though it depends on how fixed the victim of the reverse psychology is on their decision
2016-05-17 06:53:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guys needto talk
ask him why hes behaving like this
and tell him how you feel as a result of it
in a calm voice
repeat what he says back to him so affirming you are actively listening and validating what he says
then sign up for a marriage counsellor
alot can be teased out in a safe environment with a neutral person
2007-05-07 03:56:48 · answer #3 · answered by ~*tigger*~ ** 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go in there right now and while he is dead asleep whack him over the head hard and fast one time with something then pretend it never happened. Repeat process every evening this happened and he may get the idea....
2007-04-29 18:44:22 · answer #4 · answered by Dean * 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Tina Turner!!!...ok, well if you want to do reverse psycology, ask your husband this, Are you in love with me or are you in love with me?
2007-05-07 14:58:05 · answer #5 · answered by ~*ashley*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU WANT TO DO REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY JUST BE LIKE OK HONEY GO OUT AND HAVE FUN WITH YOUR FRIENDS. AND SAY, " I'M GONNA GO OUT WITH MY FRIENDS TOO DON'T WAIT UP!" OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT. OR MAYBE TELL HIM IN ADVANCE THAT YOUR GONNA BE OUT AND FORCE HIM TO STAY AT HOME BY DUMPING THE KIDS AT HIM. BUT I WOULDN'T RECOMEND DOING REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY. YOUD JUST BE STOOPING DOWN TO HIS LEVEL.
ANOTHER OPTION IS DOING WHAT MOST WIVES DO ITS EVIL BUT IT WORKS (AND I WOULN'T RECOMEND IT EITHER BUT ITS AN OPTION) THREATEN HIM WITH DIVORCE! LOL
2007-05-05 07:21:05 · answer #6 · answered by alexgirl6 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
WHY-- Honest communication works better than passive aggressive manipulation
2007-05-04 08:57:57 · answer #7 · answered by TAT 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe stop smoking so much weed for a change.
2007-05-04 12:11:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
if you wear to turn the tables on him then see if he changes
2007-05-07 09:47:08 · answer #9 · answered by rose p 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you Tina Black, by chance?
2007-05-02 15:28:49 · answer #10 · answered by Charles R 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋