Would you be my friend or my enemy.....?

Question

I am 17 years old and weight 256 but don't like it. Other people think that I am ugly and too fat. Even if you heard that I was a good person and friend, will you approach me and talk to me and be friends with me or will you tease me, call me names and be my enemy? Please don't leave rude answers.

Answer 1

I would be your friend. I don't choose friends based on looks, I choose them based on personality. So if you are a good person with a great personality then I would consider you a friend.
We can exercise together.

Answer 2

I would definitely be your friend. I am more mature now that i am older and do not take people on there appearance alone. But ashamedly i may have at one stage in my life. So remember that people around your age can be cruel but it wont stay this way forever.
Is there anything that you can do to lose some weight? I ask because it will really give you a higher opinion of yourself and will also help you not feel so alone in life. When you feel good about yourself you radiate that and THAT is what people are attracted to.
There is nothing worse than not having any self confidence it will be hard work but if you get there you feel like super women.

Good luck

Answer 3

That would make no difference to me. And I dont understand why it does to anyone else. I've never been overweight, but some of my family members and friends are, and they are great people just like anyone else. It really makes me ANGRY when people look at someone and think that they know them by what they see. Everyone has something about themselves that they dont like so people need to realize when they point a finger at someone, they have 3 of their own pointing back at them. So... Yes I would be your friend if you are a nice person, thats all that matters.

Answer 4

Of course I would be your friend. Why should weight have anything to do with who you are? I recently lost about 50 pounds and I saw the difference in how people treat you. It's disgusting that our society has gotten to this point. I am so sorry. I hope you find yourself some good friends who understand you for you. <3

Answer 5

I am a friend to anyone that crosses my path in life. I would make all efforts to have an enemy become a friend of mine. You are approx. 200 lbs. less than new friends I went all out for until we
took separate paths. Don't snuff the beauty in you because of
inhumane people.

Answer 6

I would be your enemy because I have lots of friends but I don't have enemies. Why did you put your weight down? It's not like that makes a difference.

Answer 7

Well there is no room for rude people in this world and if they dont see you for who you are they dont need to be your friends anyway.. I will be your friend tho.. I like to look at hearts instead of the outside of someone

Answer 8

I don't hang out with teenagers but if I were 17 I'd hang out with you. Just because you're big doesn't mean you wouldn't be a good friend.

Answer 9

of course its not about whats on the outside that makes the person. people that make fun of someone is usually insecure about there self . so don't worry about it you could always lose weight as long as your a good person that's all that matters.

Answer 10

I would be your friend. Mean people really irritate me and I think you sound like a good person. Hang in there, real friends will be there for you but they can be hard to find.
Hang onto them when you do get one, they are precious but rare.