what if what you thought was love was an exaggerated sense of fleeting lust? or discovered to be a chemical imbalance? what if every time you fell in love, you felt slightly different? would you say that each new love was in fact true love? do you think true love even exists? how many times must we become jaded before we can see the real truths? or is love just a fable told by our bitter parents because they never found what they were looking for? do you think parents are part of the problem? pushing their children into a fantasty realm that they'll never find until they're much older? do you think love should be hard? do you believe in soul mates: that there is one person out there for everyone? do you think if you close your eyes, you can make this question vanish? what if the world around you is really an illusion and everything is really made of cake and honey?
2007-04-29 17:32:53 · 35 answers · asked by ? 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
english please? i dont speak in LOVELUSTED
2007-05-07 11:36:42 · answer #1 · answered by R.AAA 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well your question is a bit involved but im going to answer it to the best of my ability because i like it!!
1 No i dont think we have been wrong all this time because we all have our own beliefs..
2 Love is something you need to realize is really love.. Before i met my fiance i thought i was in love with this guy and i really thought it and when we broke up i was truly crushed but when i met my fiance i found out what love really felt like... Its a very different feeling..
3 I wouldnt say eatch love is a true love because i believe that true love only comes along once in your life and you will know when that is!!
4 I truly believe true love exists..
5 We can become jaded many times but we need to really see it through our own eyes and experience it.. even if it dosent end up great in the long run we will find out the truth.. Listen to your parents somewhat but not totally is what i have also learned because if i did I wouldnt be where i am now..
7 Yes parents are sometimes the problem but that is only if you let them be the problem.. dont let anyone stand in your way...
8 Should love be hard, it goes both ways at times yes and at times no... If love wasnt hard then you are not in love because you need to get throught those tough times with the one you love to know if you can do it..
9 Yes i do believe in soul mates.. my personal oppinion..
10 No this question will never vanish because there is so many people wondering it and they sometimes dont ask it and hold it inside and i star you for asking it!! Great question!!
11 Nothing to me is a illision because if it was i would not have had the hardship i have already had in life.. But then again everyone looks at it differently..
Hope i helped.. Good luck in life and let happiness find you!!
Debbie
2007-05-07 15:57:55 · answer #2 · answered by debbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found true love and it WAS an exaggerated sense of fleeting lust, and probably involved chemical imbalances as well. It doesn't matter, though. I know how good it made me feel, and I believe I can find it again.
As to the cake and honey comment, I would be surrounded by ants and bees if that were true. Life may be an illusion, but it is one we create. We are not physical beings going through a temporary spiritual existence, we are spiritual beings going through a temporary physical existence.
2007-04-29 17:45:17 · answer #3 · answered by idahoturkey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think love is a deep inner need for total acceptance by another person. I thought I had found it but I was being conned. Now I'm trapped. I can either stay and take it or leave and die. Our legal system proclaims that it protects women from this but it does not especially if you are a total lunatic and marry a cop. There is no such thing as love or true love, I know it now. Oh, you can love your baby, your mom, or another relative but not a man. My parents were all for my marriage now they cower from him and my fear. I can't blame them,tho....power is everything in this country. No, I no longer believe in soul mates. I wish I could close my eyes and make a lot of things disappear. There is no cake where I live and no honey either. Just a living He**!
2007-05-07 15:16:58 · answer #4 · answered by joni j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose I could be wrong...(.but I doubt it.)
I waited a long time and finally found my soulmate at the age of 32. If you havent found yours yet, please dont give up and just settle for someone who will simply tolerate you.
You should date, and enjoy yourself, and allow yourself to learn about what you want in life, maybe even allow yourself to fall in love. You may find many girls you love but finding your soulmate is soooo much different from regular love. It is indescribable.
Keep an open-mind and keep looking for the right one who will be your true love.
. Honestly, It IS hard and it takes time and effort. All of your searching is worth it though. I love my soulmate so much I feel like he is a part of me. I cant even begin to imagine a future without him in it.
It can happen for you too...even if it takes a while.
I had quite a few boyfriends and dated many different types of guys, before I met him and doing this I learned a lot about myself and what is truly important to me in life.
It's so awesome when you meet your true soulmate. It sounds sappy, but I swear you can look into there eyes and almost see part of your own soul in there too. Hate to be sappy, but I really mean it.
Good luck and don't give up.
2007-05-03 11:38:37 · answer #5 · answered by Cuppycake♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thanks melodywhore!!
now you got ME wondering?!i don't know about lust....that wasn't the thing that attracted me!!it was the heart within,the soul!of course every time it's different!because every person is different!i've had love with a handsome man,a sexual satisfying man...but the feeling that i feel right now is with a man who writes words into my soul!he is a poet of another time!a soul mate?i believe so!why?i feel him in my mind,in my soul!i tell him my secrets,he tells me his!it is not of lust what we found,but pure love!and when the lust that exists becomes satisfied,the love of the heart will be our guide!yes i believe in true love!but not just one!maybe there are many true loves for us but we must find the right one that will be exactly how we want!if this is an illusion...then i don't want to wake up!!
2007-04-30 00:52:52 · answer #6 · answered by ....FED UP............ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe love is real - it is just chemical. I don't believe in true love. I don't know about parents, but they are surely an influence on their children and I do think they indoctrinate their children with their beliefs to some point. I don't believe in soul mates, or even souls. I believe anything is possible because the world IS just an illusion, one long dream, a lie. I DO believe I may be wrong, I don't believe there is truth. Good question, I wonder the same things.
2007-04-29 17:42:18 · answer #7 · answered by Death.Note.fan 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
We are here, at least that is what we all know, there might be something out there that we are no aware of, scary, yes it might be, maybe one day it will come out, till then, learn to live your life to the fullest, believe in love and trust your loved one. I think you can fall in love many times in your life, but there is just one person for you and you will know once you find her something inside you will jump and you will give your whole self :)
2007-04-29 17:52:27 · answer #8 · answered by gone 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are many dimensions of love..dependent upon your age and maturity...yur understanding of yurself and the relationship....the teen years are all about love...bet everyone you dated for an extended period of time you loved...and you most likely did..as you understood and thought love to be at that time in your life. YES I believe in a soulmate, and in True Love, and that there is that special someone for each one of us. On the road of life..finding this ONE person can take time, patience, and self endurance. NOONE knows you better than yourself, and you have to be honest with yourself as to who you are, what you want and expect out of a mate, and life shared, in order to know when that ONE person comes into your life who can fulfill this need and longing in your life. Our parents are a contributing factor in how we see love, if we believe in it.. want it for ourselves, or fear it. The way they handle their relationship and feelings before us sets the *ground rules* as to the way we expect love to happen, or if it is even a desirable part of our future. If the world around me is an illusion then let me dream on...the arms of my bf wrapped around me sure feels real, the slobbering sugar of my 21/2 yr old granddaughter and her tiny lil arms wrapped across my shoulders saying *wuv you* feels real, the radiant smile of 11 1/2 month grandson as he masters the art of walking looks real...let me dream on......
2007-05-07 15:25:27 · answer #9 · answered by lonely needing friends 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in LOVE. also i do think there is someone for everyone out there. just because you are going through a strange time in your life doesn't mean that you wont fall in love with the right person someday.
2007-05-07 16:34:18 · answer #10 · answered by rennickerii@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i believe in soul mates and i've had the love bug where i couldnt sleep or eat...let alone think straight its so cool! i think nothing in life is easy...this world isnt just black and white theres all this grey as well....and anything is possible the human mind is so so strong! people that have been told they will never walk again have walked. its just amazing...you can be,do or think anything you put your mind too....=)
2007-05-07 14:52:16 · answer #11 · answered by jojoggers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋