Ok So.. i have a sister 2 years older than me.. she dated a guy in high school that my family really loved.. they got engaged after dating for like 2yrs and my family was ecstatic. well she broke it off about a month before the wedding.. well she got engaged about 6months later to a different guy that she had known for about 2months. they got married about 8months later. they have been happily married for about 2years.. i thought. she recently confided in me that was still in love with her ex fiance.. the man that she is married to now is a dime.. then the other day i was bluetoothing her a ringtone and a text message popped up from her ex fiance saying hey babe where are you.. WHAT DO I DO.. she has been meeting up with him and telling her husband that she is with me!!! i feel so guilty. I love her husband to death and I AM THE ONLY ONE THAT KNOWS ABOUT THIS. Its not really my business to tell. HELP i am miserable. any suggestions?
2007-04-29 15:14:41 · 5 answers · asked by Brit 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
You are correct. You shouldnt tell your sister's husband what you accidently saw. The best thing for you to do is to pray about this. The Lord will wise your sister up if she has been playing around. and if she isnt, well then you would have stirred up a can of worms for nothing if you revealed what you saw..
Bottom line, dont say anything. Things will work themselves out one way or another. you didnt create the problem, so dont get involved. For your own sake.
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2007-04-29 15:26:00 · answer #1 · answered by cjam 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
can no longer say i 'hate" something yet issues I dont like 10. Blueberries in stuff 9. intense heels that supply you blisters 8. Stains 7. Temp above 85 6. Lipstick 5. well-being center bunnies with much less clothing on than I sleep in 4. television shows that glamorize teen preganacy 3. Pedicures that look like crap 3 days later 2. a hundred% cotton pants that shrink a million. finding the suited costume and not on your length
2016-12-29 17:59:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your sister that you dont want any part of it anymore. If she is going to lie to him she has to find some other way to do it. That will be the end of your envolvement and you are not obligated to say anything to her husband. Just, hope it doesnt sound mean, mind your bussiness once you are done with it.
2007-04-29 15:20:13 · answer #3 · answered by MJMGrand 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
tell your sister what you found and what you know. then tell her to keep you out of it and not to use you as an excuse. other than that, i'd stay out of it. if she continues to put you in the middle, threaten to blow the whistle on her.
2007-04-29 15:20:01 · answer #4 · answered by racer 51 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Stay out of it.
Tell your sis what you know.
2007-04-29 15:20:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋