Hey everyone,
I've been happy with my girlfriend for about 6 months now. Recently, I met this friend of hers who she swears is just a friend. The thing is, this guy is constantly flirting with her and she responds to it! They text eachother and it's always "I can't wait to see you.." from him. She swears that even though they had something long time ago, she could never be with a man. So what is this?? Is it curiosity, natural, or should I be concerned??
2007-04-29 13:59:51 · 10 answers · asked by mah355596 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well if she's your girlfriend, I think you should trust her, until something real happens. If she says she loves you, then she means it.
2007-04-29 14:03:35 · answer #1 · answered by stfan95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds familiar. I've been dating someone for a couple weeks but i still hug my ex and we tell eachother we missed eachother or cant wait to see eachother and we hang out a lot out of school. What we had was in the past and we both know that we are never getting back together. I care about my current girlfriend a lot and i would never do anything to hurt her. The reason Im so close with my ex is because we once shared something very special, and eventhough we are not together anymore, she will always have a place in my heart. Its the same with your girl. She loves him, but she's not IN LOVE with him. Until you catch them together yourself, you have to trust her. if she wanted to be with him, she would have neve got together with you. Dont worry.
2007-04-29 14:13:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she's really unsecure of what she really wants out of a relationship. Consider that you've only been together six months, she probably loves you or cares for you but still there's something inside her mind and natural instinct that is not so certain about being homo nor heterosexual.
Follow your sixth sense, be honest to yourself and consider outside signals... it can be painful but much less if you can find out the truth by yourself and not through someone else or a bad surprise.
2007-04-29 14:13:00 · answer #3 · answered by marcesmail 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible that there's nothing going on, or that she's just playing around. But if not, I'm pretty sure that most people experience crushes while in a relationship, they just aren't as serious as your feelings for your significant other. If she has a crush on him, there is a possibility that she is bisexual, and is just playing around, but doesn't have any REAL feelings toward him. Either way, she's probably not about to betray you for him. I'd say don't worry.
2007-04-29 14:28:30 · answer #4 · answered by Talia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 03:16:07 · answer #5 · answered by duthill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing I could say in this situation is...
She is with you, not him. If trust is an issue- leave...
If insecurity is the issue, communicate often and look inside for the answers.
Maybe invest in some new toys...
2007-04-29 14:52:13 · answer #6 · answered by longleggedfirecracker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drats--the girlfriend went straight and now beds a guy!!!
What are the chances of THAT happening????
Actually, it's happening to a LOT of lesbian couples (where one is quietly bi....or even as they discover.....really.....STRAIGHT after godd@mn all!!!).
Take a deep breath, angeleyes.....wipe those eyes dry now....and remember: you're NOT alone; this is happening to MILLIONS all over the planet: it happens, OK? Let her go and you carry on!!!!
2007-04-30 17:03:08 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey baby,
what's up hun it's da diva here speaking she may not be a real ture lesbian like she has this image that she is. she maybe bi sweetheart. or even straight but she is just dating you to see how it feels to be with a women. not to be mean or rude but maybe your are just an xeperiment to her. got to go love ya. smootches bye.
2007-04-30 07:06:47 · answer #8 · answered by shame on them 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you guys ever said i love you to one another? well ask her if she is in love with you and if she will be with you forever if you are in love with her if you guys are that serious then ask her if she is attracted to that guy and if so would she ever be with a guy again. but i cant tell you what to do but it might be she is just really good friends with him but its up to you to ask her.
2007-04-29 15:48:10 · answer #9 · answered by BOBO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE VERY CONCERNED..........THIS HAPPENED TO ME 2
2007-05-03 11:06:45 · answer #10 · answered by slopoke6968 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋