Ok how would you interpret this situation. My fiancee knows that im going to pick her up from work. I turn up to her shop with her sister and she isnt there. We ask her friend where she is and as a joke i think her friend says with her boyfriend in the toilet. Her sister says she wants to go see her, so i go with her and her sister comes back out of the toilet and says shes not there. We go back to her shop, then about 5 min later my fiancee arrives at the shop. When her sister asks where she was she says in the toilet we just checked. Her sister then says no u weren't because we were just there. Then my fiancee says no i was in the out of order one, then her sister says no u weren't cause i checked there too. Conversation stops for 5 min then my fiancee changes her story and says she went to another toliet that was much much further than the other one and that she just wanted to walk. Also lately she has been very secretive with her mobile. Hanging up on the calls she receives.
2007-04-29 12:17:37 · 25 answers · asked by Pauly P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It sounds like it, but if you guys are far enough in your relationship where you are engadged, then you should just be able to ask her. I'm not saying she will tell you the truth, but you have to give her the chance to.
2007-04-29 12:23:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would check it out first before you conclude she's cheating. If you can't think of any ways to do that. Ask a women who's been cheated on. For real - any women could tell you first hand if they been cheated on then they turn into a FBI agent quicker than sh**. And were good at it too. Look a little deeper and i'm sure you'll find the truth. But it does sound to me like she's cheating.
2007-04-29 19:23:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she sounds as if she is cheating on u, there are some other signs to look for, loss of intimacy, won't communicate, lies, defensive, dresses nicer, primps more, new love techniques, abandons religious faith, avoids u, answers the phone in another room, or not answering calls at all when with u, picks fights with u, seems bored with u and her life. i would say based on what u are seeing, that she is cheating on u, but not yet ready to come clean with it, because she may not be sure of the other man.
2007-04-29 20:10:10 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry hon,but she has a boyfriend and you feel something is wrong.Her friend thinks it's wrong so that is why she said what she did.She gave you the half Truth,she gave you just enough to start watching and listening.Are you ready for the Truth.
2007-04-29 19:48:00 · answer #4 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be cheating but if she is not there's some major secrets that should be out in the open before you two ever get married.
2007-04-29 19:55:44 · answer #5 · answered by saturn5662001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you guys didn't check the men's restroom?
And maybe the friend is trying to let you know the girl is seeing another guy, in a round about way.
2007-04-29 19:22:03 · answer #6 · answered by Ella 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a lot of who shot John. A world continues to turn regardless.
2007-04-29 19:37:07 · answer #7 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the workmate was giving you a heads up to her cheating ways I would say so long!
2007-04-29 19:25:54 · answer #8 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly,if you feel it in your gut then you already know the answer. To me it sounds like she is especially since she couldn't even tell you where she was and lying about (BEING IN THE TOILET!) Like I said you already know the answer to that. PLEASE be smart and make a wise decision. this person is the person you picked to be your WIFE.
2007-04-29 19:46:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, your fiancee is talking to someone else. She is cheating. Sorry.
2007-04-29 19:53:15 · answer #10 · answered by wisdom_women 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋