I know so many people who have been killed so suddenly.It's always a shock as we take each day for granted.My husband was in a car accident today.He's ok but, we had been arguing before he left.
Imaging you've been arguing with your loved one or shouting at your child,they go out, and you never see them again!
That must be awful.Ive decided to make sure I tell my loved ones how much I love them everyday.I also keep a note in my purse telling them so incase anything happens to me.Morbid I know.
Will you please do the same?
2007-04-29 11:56:38 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
sorry to hear about your husband my husband drives for a living and we never let him go to work on a bad note and we have been married for 21 years and we have no children but we tell each other every day that we love each other i hope you are ok i know your husband had the accident but people forget about the other person take care love Wendy x x
2007-04-30 05:39:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the same way as you do. I tell my loved ones every where I go and tell them that I love them and I get upset when they don't tell me. Like you said, whet if they or I go out and something happens and you never see your loved ones again, at least you had that last goodbye, that last I love you. My family says that it is being controlling having to do that but I don't think so, I see it as it maybe being the last time you speak to that person and you want to go on a good note not fighting or not getting along.
Sorry about your husband, hope he is ok. My younger cousin just lost her husband in a care accident last week and I feel so bad for her, I am just hoping that they parted on good terms.
2007-04-29 14:31:38 · answer #2 · answered by Mama Garrison 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad your husband is alive. I bet he already knew you loved him before the accident, even if you argued. Ask him. I bet he'll tell you he was worried too, in that split second before the crash. Two people who truely love each other wouldn't think an arguement meant the love was gone. But I know what you're saying. If something had happened, and you were unable to take back unkind words, or be able to say I love you one last time, that would be awful to live with. I'm glad you have the chance to tell him the fight was meaningless and that you love him. Hold him tight tonight!!!!
2007-04-29 12:26:28 · answer #3 · answered by Kim 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Glad you husbands OK..it's a good reminder, thanks. My friends husband went out one day and was killed in an accident at work, it changed the families life completely...she left town with her son, cut off all contact with all family..it was a few years ago and i don't see her now, but i know she never got over the tragedy..
I think that's a good idea to carry a note in your purse for your loved ones...
Stay well and happy.xx
2007-04-29 13:17:06 · answer #4 · answered by ;) 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I really do that already. I've also lost several dear friends to sudden fatal illnesses, also family members. I always make it a point to tell others that I love them, and in return, my friends (more than my family) respond in kind. Going to bed with no regrets is sometimes hard to do, but it is well-worth it. So, my friends throughout the world, "I love you".
2007-04-29 19:26:57 · answer #5 · answered by gone 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I always tell my kids and grandkids that I love them. I think your idea about putting it in a note in your pocketbook is excellant. Yes, life is precious, and can be very fleeting. That's why it makes no sense to see all the fighting going on in this world.
2007-04-29 12:07:02 · answer #6 · answered by Bud's Girl 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I tell my family everyday how much I love them so if anything was to happen nobody would be in any doubt and vice verse'. Don't dwell on this sort of thing life is too short....now go to bed and sweet dreams . N'nite.
2007-04-29 12:23:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, Welshcake! You are totally right! For this reason and many others (like good manners, customs, etiquette, etc.) people should always be cognizant of others' thoughts, feelings, concerns, etc. and never throw around comments like "hello," "goodbye," "I love you," etc. lightly. E.G. I am Italian and French, and, as you probably know, those two cultures are very careful not to. Good comment! ;o)
2007-04-29 12:17:38 · answer #8 · answered by Casanova 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Thank goodness your husband is alright, I always, always tell my hubby how much I love him before we turn over and go to sleep and we never let the sun set on an argument either.
2007-04-29 12:01:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
you are a good person and one day you must have done something right and this karma came back to you I'm very happy that you and your loved ones are OK,and yes i will be doing the same thank you for sharing your story .
2007-04-29 19:56:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋